So, I'm brand new to the forums, but this looks like the perfect place to ask a question such as this. To preface my question, it may help to know that I am a virgin...so I have ZERO experience with actually detecting a female orgasm. Both my fiance and I have decided to save sex for marriage. A decision i couldn't be more happy about. Anyway... Last night my fiance and i were making out. Things were getting pretty heated. I'm not sure how long we had actually been kissing, but my fiance started moaning just a little bit. Then, all of the sudden, she grabbed my body tight and started breathing really fast and REALLY heavy. All she could do was hold onto my body and breath (the heaviest i've ever heard her breath). Again, I'm not sure how long it may have lasted for. So, to pose my question again, did she orgasm? I realize the easiest way to go about finding the answer is to ask her...which I will most likely do soon enough. But, due to our decision to save sex for marriage, its sort of a scary topic to bring up. Any thoughts, questions, ideas? I would love to hear some input. Thanks
It sounds to me like she did, or she was very close to having one. Many people think orgasms only occur during sex, but ive had countless orgasms just by making out with my husband. Only way to be sure would be to ask her, and like you said you plan on doing that when the time is right. GL! Hello, btw
No guiltyfeelings. You did not have sex and orgasms do happen for other reasons. I had a gf that was set on never having sex until being married that would lightly grind on me or she had a hand between her legs as we frenches. AMAZING orgasms and it did not break any of her rules. She would actually get moist through her panties and her jeans.
i'd say yeah.. ive had mild orgasms without actually having sex.. what drives me wild is when a guy gently sucks on my neck... and does other things of course..
Can't say I've ever made anyone orgasm from sucking on their neck, but it has evoked some pretty impressive responses. Lots of fun to do
It's not really hard to tell if a women is having the "real thing" when I say that, what I mean is you'll know it for sure, in fact most probably you'll both be sweating - it's like being in the sauna for too long, hyper-ventilating, very fast heart rate (beating very fast 200+ per min) like its noticable ( you can hear their heart beating (pounding almost) in their chest cavity ) !! The one thing that really gives a womens orgasm away is ballooning at the end of the vaginal barrel and then not long after it - sporadic contractions of the vaginal barrel, the more intense the orgasm the more you will know about it. They tend to clamp up just before it hits - like the decent of a roller coaster ride down a huge ramp !!! It's not something that you would miss at all especially if you have spent time on a lot of foreplay. Foreplay = kissing, caressing with your hands (very,very gentle [like the wings of a butterfly]), all over their entire body for a prolonged period of time. The idea is not to coerce orgasm out of them, its dangle the carrot to seduce them to it. Its a tease until they orgasm.
He-he-he-he Honey dripper -not familiar with the term I think I know what you mean though. I've always thought why not make it lovely with your partner instead of being selfish, arrogant and horrible. Were only on the earth for a short time might as well tune in and make it pleasant and lovely. :Angel: G.B.
Haha it means you're sweeeet! Hey, Switchfoot, you said that in deciding not to have sex till marriage it's a bit scary to bring it up for discussion. That's natural, but I encourage you two to talk about it as much as possible, you learn a lot by doing, obviously, but one thing that was definitely missing for me in my early sex life was the confidence to talk openly with partners about what feels good for both of us. Knowledge about your own body and your partner's body comes with experience, but if you've never done it before it can help to be able to say "I really like it when you do..." without embarrassment. Healthy communication about sex is just as important in a relationship as the sex itself. good luck!
