I want a realtionship with a beautiful woman

how many guys with the same goal but average looking found love with an extremly attractive girl that didnt treat you less...just wondering if those relationships exist
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It happens. Didn't you see Hitch? :tongue:
Confidence is key. But I'm not a guy, so I'm not really answering your question...

 

its hard to have confidence with these girls that dont make you feel comfortable because there of higher standards and most the girls like that let you know you dont havce a chance before you open your mouth...id love to meet beautiful women that had the same regular attitudes then i wouldnt need confidence

 

damn im a funky lookin freak with hair draggin on the ground and in a wheelchair and have absolutely no trouble getting incredibly beautiful women interested

the key really is ..stop going after beautiful women.. get to know women, all women as people not pretty playthings

they dont want ya and let u know u have no chance cause they haver 5000 guys just like ya only into theyre looks
look deeper and ya got em
make a connection and u got a chance
look for some1 u can relate to, not just show off
you want a beautiful gorl jusdt to boost your ego
a beautiful girl knows guys are attractred she cant get em to leave her alone, what shes missing is 1 who can relate to her respect her and not just treat her like a body

dont even think about theyre looks when you approach themn

 

its not a ego thing...id just really like to meet a girl who is gorgeous but not a bitch..thats not to bad.....

 

I dunno man.

What about a girl who is neither gorgeous nor a bitch.

To me, it sounds like the gorgeous part is bigger than the not bitch part for you.

think about what you really want in a girl. dont be so focused on looks, and what soaring eagle just said is very very true.

 

then why the hell dont ya? theres so many out there
ive met way more then i could handle

but theres 2 types of women of beuty
those who rely only on theyre beauty and hasve very lil personality (bitch)
and then beautiful women who sre beautiful inside and out

1 wants to tease ya and get ya to buy em shit the other wants to be appreciated as person before beijng appreciated as a beauty

im way obvvergeneralizing here and i know some may take offence
im tellin u if u want a beautiful woman then put her beauty secondary seek a connection with the person within
then and only then do u desserve the beauty without

my girls so incredibly beautiful i actualy had to block it out of my mind to get to know her deeper..
sometimes u gotta close your eyes and open your mind
and some of the mosdt beautiful women dont look so great outside whil somewho look amazing outside are truly ugly inside

 

i guess i ment do they exist cause its nots true here

 

get some confidence man

 

THey do exist, you just haven't met one.

 

I have been dating a woman for three and a half years who has always been regarded as very beautiful (and she is very well educated and successful too). Keeping it romantic helps, and making sure she feels loved and appreciated, and knows that I am true to her and not seeing anyone else on the side. It also helps that some of her friends think I have "movie star good looks" (never felt of myself that way, however). I am equally well educated and successful, so we are a good match.

Why do some very good looking women date or marry ugly men? It is probably because: 1) they are very good lovers; and/or 2) they worship the ground she walks on. Strangely enough, some extraordinarily good looking women (and men) make terrible lovers, because they are so vain, and basically very insecure beneath all that beauty. An ugly man is not going to get taken away from her by another woman, which makes her feel more secure.

 

Soaring Eagle is dead right, if a girl thinks you want her just for her looks. She will either use that to her advantage or be a bitch.

 

yep confidence and personality is absolutle key.

notice how confidence and personality are often correlated to a persons looks. in that a beautiful woman will have massive confidence and often hi personality but ofcourse is most of the time a stuck up bitch cause of it all.

and somone who doesnt look very good, is more shy, more nice, and more...whatever.

i rekon i dont look that great, but at the moment im with this amazing latino girl. and yeah she could get somone who looks way hotter yeah. but its who that person is that counts. my ego has only increased since dosing a bit of lsd. and this girl says im not like any other guy she has met. we have so much fun together. cause im a bright happy person with a good perspective, and i show her emotion and tell her things that woman love. but in this case they are true.

dude you could have the possibility of getting any girl. your only real young, if you are like i was , i wasnt full of personality and wasnt that good with girls at your age. but since getting out of school, maaan things change. im a differnt person. you just need a few good experiences with hookin up with some ok chicks and your confidence will grow quickly.

probably the most important thing you need to learn is that looks arent everything. and no where close.

 

Your posts scare me, man. Just what are you using to measure beauty? You haven't met ANY beautiful women? Or do you mean you haven't meant any fake, airbrushed Hollywood-looking women? If that's your aim, you'll be leading a pretty disappointing life.

YES, beautiful women exist. You can find something beautiful about every woman. You just need to redefine the term.

PB

 

i'm sure this sounds trite.. but i'm a firm believer. beauty is completely subjective. as long as a woman is beautiful to you, who is to say that she isn't? It's like, how do you grade a piece of art? You may think you've found a beautiful woman who treats your body like she thinks it's built like a greek god, but nobody else finds her as attractive..what would you do then?

 

LOL, I don't know, it's tipsy turvy where I went to High School.


Lots of average looking guys who weren't into sports AT ALL ( losers in my mind ) had amazingly hot girlfriends because they dressed like LOSERS!

You know the kids who wear pants that are like 50% their size and DON'T where a belt, they just use one hand to keep their pants up and they wear caps sideways??

Those fucks also couldn't hold up a chin, they were PUSSIES! And yet a lotta them had THE hotties.

It actually pissed me off A LOT.

Most of our athletes dated average to good looking girls, but not GREAT.

Granted, we only had 4/5 mens sports teams and most of the athletes played on more than one team.

But still I never got that, I had to date outside of my school because all the major hotties at mine were taken.

So yes my friend, I'd actually take it a step further and say 25% of married couples are where the guy is out of the girl's league.

 

just show her a fun time. be a nice guy without being a pussy. dont beat on a lady. dont shout at a lady. be emotional to her, and romantic. thats all you got to do to land just about any girl.

 

Um, sorry, it's not that simple...

 

oh really than. why dont you expand on that instead of just saying its not that simple.

those things are pretty much everything. if you show her a fun time, your a good guy to her, you express your emotions to her, and your romantic. there isnt much else left. i guess there is individualism. you have to be differnt than "all the other guys". cause alot of them are just all the same. you have to have your own groove. or whatever you want to call it. i would say im unique. prob cause of psychdelic drugs. thats all i do and i met this girl only 3 weeks ago, and she told me im not like any other guy and that altho its early to say, but she said she LOVES me. maan. thats good cause shes amazing.

 

oh the most important thing i forgot. intamacy. its not even the sex. but just wanting and being able to hold them. and be close. girls love it, and some guys dont, but i love holding my girl. in bed i mean just sleeping or whatever.