been with my gf for about 2 1/2 months now, she finishes her mid term tests on thursday, i finish friday. her friend asks her to go out clubbing on thursday, which she asks if its alright with me (cant say no can i) so i say sure. only problem is, she's the type of girl who loves to drink lots loves to party lots is quite attractive now, i'm not a bad looking guy myself and i know she loves me and she tells me everyday, but the problem is, when a person is under the influence of alcohol, doesn't that sorta seem less important and lower your inhibitions/thoughts of consequences? i guess what im trying to say is do you trust your partner out clubbing/partying with their friends when theres lots of alcohol involved? i guess this only applies to guys and girls who have similar sorts of partners, not the type who like to stay home or go out to dinner etc.
My partner and I love to go out...we also live 2500 miles away from one another...so I've had to overcome doubts about this as well. I absolutely trust my partner...100%...therefore, whether he's under the influence of alcohol or not, I know that he will be faithful to me. He's not EVER given me any reason to doubt that he's a loyal and wonderful man...therefore, until he gives me a reason NOT to trust him...I will. Hope that answers your question.
My babe is in a band...and I hate going out. So ya we spend a lot of time apart. Ill go to the shows some, and we go to some parties together but as a whole we party alone. I get high with my friends, he gets high with his. I drink with my friends he drinks with his. It actully works well because we are super crazy about each other but have our own lives
well, my bf doesnt drink but i do... and i often go out with m y girls to go dancing/partying. nothings ever happened, and nothing ever will. but we trust each other... which i think is integral to any relationship surviving
wouldnt date any1 who drank enough to screw with theyre inhibitions and trustworthyness but the trust between us is 100% i know she can go out, stay over at freinds sleep 4 in a bed with guys and girls and no matter what shed never wanna be with sny1 but me shes out havin fun with her freinds alot, and neverr worry a second..but i know if she does drink at all she'd stop at 1 or 2.and although she must get flirted with constantly i trust her completely.. im glad she dont drink tho..id never wanna date a drinker
I don't drink, and wouldn't really want to date a heavy drinker since going out to parties gets boring after a few weekends of it. I don't go out much, since its not my scene, but if the guy I was dating wanted to, then it's fine, I'd trust him. I think it's important to maintain your own social life while in a relationship.
Obviously there are some trust issues. So you would assume that just because she's attractive and drinks that she will automatically cheat on you? that's lame.
No. but I know what alcohol is like and the temptation is far greater than when you're sober, and you don't think about the consequences of your actions when you're shitfaced.
He's not assuming. He's giving a scenario for which he would like opinions. So you would assume that just because he's worried, he's a scumbag? That's lame.
depends on the person bro. i just ended a realsionship with a girl who was a alcholoic. she didnt think so, but from what i learned she was. what i got out of that realsionship more than any other was, be a good judge of character. dont think of the worse tell you know for sure its true. other wise it will break you. its happaned to me. both males and females will eventually give signs that they did something very wrong. you will know this. until then have fun man. if she is the kind of girl that gets low when dancing with guys. well with some drinks in her i can only imagine this will continue. but i dont know her or you so i cant say. be a good judge of character.
My hubby is in a popular band. Whether or not girls or women think hes hot Great I think thats awesome!! now if hes at the bar and hes having a few drinks or were having a few drinks i have total faith in him hes faithful to me thats all that matters to me. Why should i just doubt over music? when i hear it ever day and every other weekend
Alcohol is no excuse, it doesn't justify cheating. But then I also think that if someone's ready to cheat when they're drunk, they would do it even if they were completely sober. My boyfriend and I go out without each other all the time, it's never a problem. We have a healthy happy relationship, no need or want to cheat.
