Part of being bi for me is that I just LOVE getting my cock sucked !!, Im 7" cut and just love to be serviced orally, Im more and more finding Im a dom/top I like to suck too but I have a preference.... 6"-8" cut and slim enough to deepthroat, BTW I can take it pretty thick but I guess Im talking about regular thickness... But the deeper I get into bisex, (newbie) Im finding that allot of guys want to suck cock......and I want to be sucked !! A guy I met online recently just wants to rim me, suck me and be fucked !! I dont feel Im taking advantage of a sub/bottom who offers to suck my cock or be fucked if I dont reciprocate. If thats his kink then Im the guy !! Its just that with women I always feel I (and want to) give as good as I get, but with bottom/sub guys I feel can take what I want and thats it !! (BTW he allways gets off, either I give him a hand job or if hes a sub I make him jerk off and cum either when I cum or afterwards ..) As a newbie bi top/dom am I taking advantage or is this just a good match ?
I would be more than happy to be used this way. You aren't taking advantage of someone if they are willing.
No way are you taking advantage, he wants it that way so give it to him. I'm a bi bottom and my wife get's really horny seeing Tom and I sucking each others cocks before I mount her in the 69 position so Tom can fuck me in the ass while she's sucking my cock. Tom and I have alone time together too sometimes and we'll suck each other, but there are times where I just want to fully service him with my mouth and ass. He's pretty big at 9 1/2" (makes my 8" look small when fully hard) and a joy to suck on and deep throat which both our wives get off on watching too since neither of them can do so. When he and I are doing our alone thing I'll take his first load in my mouth and swallow it...keep sucking him hard again (he loves having his cock sucked and I can suck for 90 minutes non stop if needed) and take his second load in my ass. Once he managed to dump two loads in my ass and we were both exhausted.
As others have said, there should be no guilty feelings about what you are doing, as long as both you and the other guy enjoy it. Some like to give the exact sort of pleasure that others wish to receive. Win-win scenarios are te reason I have had so many meetups with guys. This became evident to me during my very first experience. I learned there was at least one guy (him) that totally enjoyed doing to me what I enjoyed having done to me. And he did it to me for 3 hours, and it blew my mind about how much I enjoyed it , and how obvious it was how much he was enjoying it too We eagerly met up the next day for 4 hours of more of the same
Love to have you make me jerk off. Your not doing anything wrong. I'm a sub bottom. Love to eat my own cum.
You're not wrong at all. In fact, a guy like would be a dream come true for ME personally. Like "dd788snipe" said, guys like you are few and far between. I'm a submissive bottom with guys (always have been), and it has ALWAYS been a fantasy/desire of mine to have a sexy, dominant TOP guy "use" me as his personal "cum dump" bitch behind closed doors. Unfortunately, I've only had 1 guy totally sexually dominate me, and it's something I've craved (actually, I'm pretty sure I need it) ever since. Just the thought of being completely sexually submissive to another guy turns me on like crazy. I've always found myself drawn towards guys that have a LOT of self confidence, seem a bit "cocky", know exactly what they want, and are at least somewhat "aggressive". I find those traits/qualities to be really sexy in their own right. If that guy is HOT, and has a really nice cock to go along with those traits/qualities, then even better in my book. Although I've only been totally sexually dominated by 1 guy before, that experience was one of the best and most exciting things I've ever done. We were friends, and while we were in public, we were equals... But behind closed doors, things were much different. I was his completely submissive bottom "bitch", and he was a total sexually dominant TOP. We actually balanced each other out well in the bedroom, and both of our needs/desires were met and fulfilled. I absolutely LOVED being his complete sexuall submissive bottom "bitch, and he thoroughly enjoyed being a total dominant TOP, as we both seemed to fill those roles naturally. I've never met another guy since (or even before for that matter) that was a totally sexually dominant TOP... But it's something I've craved, and felt I've needed since that experience with him (it was a FWB type relationship that lasted for almost a year). If I were to meet the RIGHT guy, I'd LOVE to explore the possibility of a TRUE dom/sub relationship, both in and out of the bedroom. Also for the RIGHT guy, I'm really interested in being collared, leashed, and kept locked in chastity (a cock cage), with him being the only one who controls the key to my chastity device (o this point, the only one who's ever locked my cock in chastity is my wife, which she does periodically). In a TRUE dom/sub relationship, I'd also like to be his personal "cum dump" (and have him cum in my mouth or ass, or anywhere else on me he felt like it at any given time) and urinal (as I've had a major "golden shower" fetish for many years. Again, guys like you seem to be a rarity, and if that other guy wants to be your completely submissive bottom, then there's no reason not to be his dominant TOP, and have fun doing so. You definitely wouldn't be taking "advantage" of him... It's called two consenting adults having fun and doing what seems to come naturally to them.
Sound like just about the perfect top to me ,definitely not taking advantage of situation.At least for me personally as a bottom I love when a top is in total control and like you mentioned I always have an orgasm sometimes multiples either with reach around or through my own hand.
