i know i have being on here for a while, and have asked ur opnions of things, but i just seem to be getting no where, my ex knows about this, she goes to me you are not gay defo not gay, she knoes there is a possibility that i am bisexual, but i know i am even though i havent being with a man, i just cant stop thinking about it, and it is makign me really unhappy, but the thing is, all these women that i have being with 7 in total, is it possiblle, that i am gay and didnt enjoy iy, i mean sometimes i think ov going with women, and it like doesnt feel tight, i then think ov going with a man, which use to bring me anxiety, but now it is like become so natural to me, i mean i need to know the answer, do i have to with a man to defo find out if i am that way, i mean to staright guys, does the thought ov going with man repulse them or what. i mean i know this will sound like a stupid question, but how do you feel when you are gay/bi what feelings occur, what emotions do u feel when u see men
i u replying with that in a joke way, or an actual statment where u are being honest with the what i have wrote, are u gay?
yes I am uh... attracted to guys I think from what I've herd your gay but I am no expert so this is just the opinion of some 17year old good old boy
what makes u think from what i ahve said i am gay, be nice if you could explain, so what about the 7 women i have being with then, has that being at total lie, have a lied to them all, i thought i enjoyed myself with them
no I don't think your lieing to them I think your were lieing to your self but by questioning these new feelings and trying to understand them your opening your mind so based on that I'd say at the very lest your curious about sex with a guy so if I were you I'd start there with those feelings if they expand and continue then you mite have to open your self up to the possibility that your bi or gay I think you want to explore these feelings other wise you would have repressed them or at lest ask for help getting rid of them but you ask for help coming to terms with it but to the point calling you gay mite not be the right word so I think you are attracted to guys on a sexual level you said yourself the thought of being with a guy turns you on so that sounds bi or at lest bi-curious O and to your question of gay/bi feelings for me it feels more normal it feels like this is me but as like a turned on feeling its just like with girls I see someone I'm attracted to look there's no real universally true answer to these feelings but I know that talking about them helped me so maybe clearing your head mite help but like I said before this is just my opinion if I were you I'd ask someone like yarapario
i know i like women sexually, i like looking at them checking them out, staring at there tits and stuff like that, and have enjoyed getting with women, its just a very confusing time for me at the moment, the reason i have come on this site, is called people told me i had HOCD, i believed it for a while because it brought me anxiety and didnt want the thoughts, but thinking about it all the time and getting use to the idea i have suddenly realised that i am noticing men more, and it hasn gotten to the point where i need to go with a man tio find it if i like it, so i am at rest in my own mind, i hope ua ll understand, and by the way who ever replied last cant remebr ur memeber name but thankyou your words mean alot
