mention of 3 some

im a guy so its weird i say this. this girl rekons she loves me but goes and mentions a 3-some and sure that would be sweet, but im like so youd be fine seeing me fuck another girl, and shes hesistant. but i dont think you can be in love and go have a 3 some fuck that.

 

I get what you're saying but honestly? I'd say go for it. It's usually better to regret doing something than not doing it (depending what it is, but this is unlikely to leave anyone mutilated/dead so I'm thinking it applies), and having had them in the past, they're usually pretty unemotional, just very much sex for fun. I've not had one in a relationship but it seems to be something people either do all the time or try once and never want to do again... but again, if you don't try it, you'll always be wondering how badly it would've screwed your life up. Is that something you want to go to the grave not knowing?

She's probably angling for an MMF threesome though. That's the hetero threeway problem - you usually want different thing from the third.

 

its fucked. im gonna fuck this chick off i think for other reasons too. and it was 2 girls and me if it happend. a girl in which she had been close to which moved away and is coming back soon, thus the mention of the three some. shes like in love with her or some shit. so if a girl is bi i feel like they dont have their whole heart in me so fuck it.

 

I guess. It's not ideal to do something like this if there are strong emotional connections in the group (unless they are mutual between all of the three), so you're probably right to steer clear if that's the case.

 

some people can have threesomes whiel in love, and their relationship is fine
some people, it fucks them over and they break up as a result

usually open communication, trust and lack of jealousy are required for there to be even teh remotest chance
if you dont want to have a threesome, dont. its really taht simple. its not something you should give in on, because it will irreparably damage the relationship if one of you doesnt want it

 

i`d take the threesome and then end it- you never know if the opportunity will come along again.

 

your gonna end it cause shes bi?

hate to tell ya this dude but you'll be lonely for life
most girls arent that homophobic that they cant recognize a lil bit of biness in most
most girls ..the majority at lewast have some bi tendencies or experiences
if your gonna be that close minded boiut it you'll lose most of the girls you end up withj

as for the threwsome ..ive had a couple that were semi long term relationships that were completely wonderful,

but lil bit of close mindedness guarantees a disaster..

 

my bf and i had a threesome...his idea...and after months of bugging me about it i finally gave it. it was the worth decision in our relationship...it almost ruined it and almost led to a break up. while it happened all i could think of is "hes cheating right in front of my face"...even though i gave permission it still felt like that. so if she has any doubts dont do it. and if you really value your relationship, don't do it. it happened 8 months ago and i still think about it and it even ruins sex sometimes....so make sure you talk it out with her first to make sure its what she really wants.

 

Haha, dude, there's plenty of chicks who'd stab you up for suggesting they were a bit lezza. He'll be fine.

 

the other thing a girl should never tell a guy is the amount of men they have fucked. iv fucked like 2. so im like all good and shit, and shes fucked like 50 i rekon and has a fuckin baby. so fuck it.

 

There is nothing wrong with her being Bi, it could even enrich your relationship, it has mine.

Peace

 

if it comes up in conversation, i share that info with my partner. id rather know a little about their sexual past (and sexual health) than nothing at all and worry as to waht they have
but thats me. you obviously just dont wanna be with her and any excuse will do, so just go ahead and break up with her, itll probably do ya both some good

 

OK:
1) That's an incredibly sexist viewpoint.
and
2) You should fuck more people. Seriously, I know that it's quality not quantity and everything, but two is just pathetic.

 

i know everything about my partners sexual past..men women multiplers whatever
what the hells the past matter? the pressent is all u need concern yourself with


ya got alot to learn kid..unless ya want some born again virgin prude who waited till marriage then thats the only way to not have a sexual past (just a psycho 1)

my partner also knows about my past..which grweatly outnumbers hers.. but whats that matter?
we went through who we went through to get to where we are today....together


chances are..this girl..if she hadnt slept with the 50 before ya she wouldnt be sleepin with you now
thank those giuys cause they lowered her standards enough that shed put up with ya

 

She's probably been fucking non-stop since you two met and just wants to alleviate some of the guilt by having you fuck someone else too.

 

I like how, considering the range of opinion, from "she's an evil slut" to "he's a bonehead", we pretty much all agree that threeways are pretty rad. Seems like something that could unite humanity to rise above our petty differences.

"OK, so yeah, maybe we did kinda dump our new homeland on your houses, and ok, maybe you have been rather tactlessly expressing your displeasure at this by bombing the crap out of us, but cmon: two chicks, eh? That'd be pretty hot, wouldn't it?"

 

I've been in a similar position. my gf suggested a threesome in the beginning stages of our relationship. I was already in love with her, so told her I wouldn't be comfortable with the idea of seeing her have sex with someone else, and she's been very accepting about my decision. She's a lot older, has slept around a lot, and has had sex for the sole purpose of having fun. Im twenty, have had far fewer experiences, and I am only comfortable having sex with someone I know well. You're only 19, so perhaps you have a similar view? You shouldn't be angry with her, she just has a different view of sex than you. But seeing that both of you are in a commited relationship, you two will work it out.

 

Maybe you should have a MMF threesome so you would be the center of attraction and see how it affects him long term. He got his, now it's time for you to get yours.

 

You are definitely not ready for a threesome.

 

probably where my mind is.

see im not experienced and she is thats intimidating.

and seriously theres a difference between just having sex with some of your partners but when you just fuck and fuck people its a pretty big turnoff.
thats just the way it is for some people.

and say if the other person didnt fuck all those people when they were young and got together and married or whatever, when they were older they would be very inclined to cheat on them cause they have experieced shit with all these other people and been around and you hadnt. which is true.

maybe a three some when your old and things get boring. but bringing somone else into a loving relationship is enough to divorce somone in my opinon. so be carfull if your gonna do it.