I'm in deep shit Need everyone's input on the subject

today me and my gf was having sex and after i climaxed i went to grab the condom and it wasnt there. what had happened was it came off during sex and it pushed it up in her vagina. Well here is the thing need your input on. Now we are deadly afraid of her being preg due to i dont know if it was on when i came. i got the condom out by the way. She has been crying since it happened and i dont know what to do. Is she preg or what.

 

More than likely not...it's *possible*...but you guys are probably ok if you always use condoms...these things happen sometimes...it will suck waiting for her period to start but probability is on your side brotha

 

if it was me, i would be, lol. does your gf know about the morning after pill? this is the kind of situation it's intended for. check it out.

 

you guys should just go get the morning after pill. You can get it at pretty much any pharmacy, though a planned parenthood probably has it for a cheaper price (CVS charges an outrageous amount). The longer she waits to take it, the less likely it is to work, but you can take it up to 72 hours afterwards and it will definitely help. There aren't any side effects except her stomach might feel a little gross for a couple hours.

 

yea well see there is a problem with the morning after pill. nowhere will let me buy it unless im a patient(meaning girl) plus of age. my gf is not 18 and im not a female so we are unable to buy it. we are hoping that we can go to the clinic without parents to get her checked out

 

do you have a female friend who is 18 who would be willing to go get it for you? It really isn't difficult...I didn't think about the fact that you do have to be 18 to get it though.

That, or, are both of yalls parents against sex? I mean if they are pretty open, you can explain that you were trying to be safe, but the condom slipped off....if they are cool with that kind of stuff, I'm sure they would be willing to go get it for you. At least you are being responsible trying to take care of things.

 

If a child is meant to happen, so be it.

next time siihb

 

well i am taking her to the docstoday to see what they can do for us. im hoping they have good news for us. i will be fully responsible if we do have a kid but right now that is a thing we are wanting to happen. wish me luck

 

let us know how it went ? best of luk

 

took her to the doc today. they said its too late for morning after pill and too early to test if she is preg so now we got to see and wait, this is so stressful i have no clue wut to do. has anyone else ever had a condom come off and ejaculate in the girl and the girl still not get preg? the more ppl that i hear this has happened to and they came out ok the better i will feel

 

I know people who never actually use condoms. They realized after a few times of being stupid that the girl just really wasn't fertile (or he wasn't), so after that they never worried about it. It all depends on the mobility of your sperm and how fertile she is. But it is definitely not a 100% thing. People who get married and start trying to have kids, will often have to try for a few months, or even years. So while there is a possibility, give it a couple weeks before you start completely freaking out.

By the way, what are yalls views on abortion? Have yall talked about what you would do if she is pregnant? not to worry you or anything, I guess I'm just curious because that could determine a lot about how worried you are...

 

i just read on another forum that there are only certain days during the month that a girl can get preg is that true?

 

Yeah, thats true too. Some religions which are against birth control use the method of just following the woman's cycle to see when her fertile days are. This isn't always 100%, but it definitely helps. If you google "fertility cycle" or something like that you should be able to figure out what day your girlfriend is on by asking her when her last period was.

 

How did the condom come off? maybe you should get a better brand or something..? Or one that isn't too big.

 

ok well ive been trying to read up on stuff and i cant figure out when a girl is suppose to be least fertile. my gfs last period was 4/6/08 lasted which was a sunday and ended 4/9/08 which was a wed. and this problem happened 4/14/08 monday can anyone help me with this info. was she real fertile monday or not?

 

probably not. i mean i dont know a lot about it either but im guessing not just by the dates. that was a pure guess...which probably didnt help you haha.

 

I don't think so....at least not according to this website. http://www.healthatoz.com/healthatoz/Atoz/tl/misc/duedate/datfert.jsp

I think you will be fine try not to worry too much yet, just take it day by day.

 

ok yea i just did a thing and it said she will be ovulating on april 20th. we did it on the 14th and sperm can live in the vagina for up to 5 days but i think we will be ok. ya have no idea how much ya have helped me out. this site has been very supportive and i want to thank everyone who has helped me

 

check back in with us in a couple weeks to let us know if everything is going alright

by the way, if she does end up taking some pregnancy tests in a couple weeks, the "first response" ones are the best....don't go with the cheap ones.

 

am i correct on all of this. did we have a very little chance of her getting preg or did i miscalculate