I don't know if i had sex really because i was like 10 when i did it but im a guy and i did it to another guy. We didn't give each other blow jobs or use our peanuses we just kissed each other and licked each other. Do u think that counts?
To EasyE: not realli lyk ur onli 3 yrs older than me anyway and ur not 18 yet so ur still a bit young
Judging by your last post, you obviously are too young due to your maturity/intelligence level. Not age.
Imo no. I think that if you have recieved oral/anal/handjobs you are no longer a virgin, not just if you have had actual intercourse.
I think people who have read some of my posts might be surprized to know I'm still a vergin (never even had a girl friend) but that doesn't mean I don't or wouldn't know exactly what I'm doing
In my opinion anal sex pretty much cancels out the whole virgin standing. Most people have to work up to anal sex, not start with it. Amazing how many teens believe they are virgins because they only engage in anal sex. When I was a teenager anal was some deep dark secret, and rarely did guys ask for it. How times have changed..... Kissing, oral and hand jobs are all forms of foreplay and a great alternative to intercourse.
I admire your spirit. I don't think anyone ever knows exactly what they are doing, but keep up the confidence. ~giggity~
In my opinion losing your virginity.. is when you have sex. Gay/Straight sex... putting yourself into another. Exclusing mouth, ear or eyesocket? Hehe.
i lost mine when i was 25 to my then to be wife. Although she was married her realationship with her husband was all but dead due to him smacking her about for years. We spent 2 weeks fucking like crazy and i could not come. We was having 1 hour sex periods where anything goes. It was fucking amazing. I still look back on that and wish we was like that even now, but when you have been with someone for over 7 years something has to give. She has stoped doing blowjobs which i am gutted over it was one of the things i loved and now i do all the work. Sex is still great but i would like to experiment on doing more. She dont mind me looking for a buddie to do it with but she said there has to be rules which is fair enough.
Sex does not have to get boring, or less exciting just because you have been together X number of years. Many couples find that their sex life improves with time. You may not have 2 week marathons, but the quality of the sex improves. The problem isn't "marriage" but either one or both partners in a relationship getting complacent, and allowing the sex component to be less important. When there are jobs, kids, mortgages it is sometimes hard to maintain a good sex life, and a good sex life does require maintenance. Talk to your wife and see what her wants, needs, and desires are then discuss yours. Maybe you will be able to rekindle your fond memories together.
