Thoughts on picking girls up at a bar/club

I gave you good advice.

Try it.

 

Yeah, places with good music can be alright.

And the library thing... I can believe it... hahaha.. I love the library btw. Heh...

But yeah I just said that about bars because I don't like drunks. EHhh

 

i like MUSIC thus i like some bars.

 

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well your personality will wsork for ya when u dont constantly switch back to just being an ass


you seem to be conflicted between wanting to have something real and wanting to just appear to be a player to impress your lil guyy freinds ..ya keep jumpin back and forth

who gives a shit what they think you want to meet her just walk up and say hi u dont gotta impress them u dont gotyta collect numbers to prove your a man all u gotta do is make an impressiojn on her as a nice guy...



jumpin all over ppl who try talkin to ya dont give that impression


enjoy failing if your only goal is impressing your guy freinds

 

I had a friend who had a book of pickup lines and he tried them out and actually got a few numbers ...never called I don't think.

...he also got a few slaps too, not to mention a slight beating from a boyfriend

 

\yea i hsad a freind like that too
hed try it on every single girl hed seee indescriminately
hed get a few numbers alottta fake numbers and onb occcassion hed even get a pity fuck...and theyd tell him to his face it was just a pity fuck..

thousands of lines to thousands of girls got him a rare pity fuck.. and a lifelong inability to ever talk toi a girl normaly

 

hey once again soaringeagle comes across liek a pretentious cocktard. Try giving andvice AND not being an ass?

 

It shows intrest. Saying *about* anything is better then saying nothing.

It's not really all that complicated to meet women. It's not like their a seperate species who you have to trick into liking you.

 

The approach doesn't matter. It could even be a silent approach. Or a touchy approach.


Depending on what is APPROPRIATE.

It's not the approach style that matters. Neither is the setting.

 

I don't pick women up at bars. Neither should you.

 

oh christ here we go again IT WAS JUST A SETTING EXAMPLE!!!!!!!

 

What kind of woman do you want?

 

TO be honest i don't stick to a type, i'm just tired of people that play games. I prefere my women smart, funny, and enteresting. I'm the type of guy that reads a good book and wants tot alk about it, see's a good movie and wants to discuss it.

 

So far all you said is very general. Let me rephrase it: What are your needs?

 

wow i can't say i really have needs besides the basic faithfullness, and a good companion. I require good conversation, and a relaxed atmosphere i hate drama.

 

So you're big on loyalty...

I would recommend you stay away from the PUA stuff, just because it makes you develop a deep cynicism of humanity.

Better to be innocent. Along the lines Waking_Life describes.

 

PUA??? please elaberate.

 

Indirect opener, "chick crack" followed by a tease to the target and then ignoring her altogether while I befriend her friends. Oh and PUA is pick up artist and this is how we usually do it. Just a simple technique to where we don't sound cheesy or get the "fuck off" response.

 

AND THERE IS THE MAN i was waiting on.

 

Teach 'em cocky funny too. Works better for some people.