how long before you have sex?

lately.. everyday

 

I know right.

 

You should've said that last part a few years ago. People already have ideas. hahaha

And hellvis, my answer is completely true. I may hit on and flirt with a lot of girls but you've yet to see me spend a dime on one OR change my plans and go out of my way to see or land one. I do what I do and when they cross my path, I enjoy the company.

 

Good way to explain it Mak, i agree with that.

 

You boys are precious.

 

why are we precious?

 

if it feels right, do it

 

I dont know, but you both make me happy. I feel like wed all get along well.

 

If It Makes You Feel Good Do It.

 

We don't get along? thats odd i like Mak he's one of the coolest people IN THIS BUILDING seriously. he's just fun to give shit to, if i didn't like him i wouldn't ask him about cocktails EVERY WEEKEND

 

You're just not holding back are ya?

 

lol. Thats not what I said goof!

 

Whoops.

 

Seems like Lode and I have read the same play book, yeah he is dead on. I'm the same way.

 

Player handbook.

Maybe it's a Texas thing.

 

I used to get the same shit until I started re-framing and conrtolling the situation. Now, happy care free sex

 

if i've actually gotten to the point to go out with someone, i'm expecting sex. i won't ever be alone with someone i haven't gotten to know. too many bad experiences to even bother. i can get someone figured out pretty quick. not the particulars, but the heart of someone. survival instinct.

so, yeah, if i'm on a date, it means basically that the date is about the next step of interviewing: sexual compatibility. if they're the sort of guy who won't, obviously we won't fit and no harm done except a night hanging out with a friend.

 

i know gorgouse i'm a retard sometimes, i miss read it sorry. How was your weekend, better than mine i hope.

 

oh, and the whole friend zone doesn't work with me. i make love to my friends because i love them. why? because i love them as my friends. no such thing for me as a hands-free friend. i just read the cues and if they wanna, we all have fun and make breakfast in the morning. sex isn't some moralistic thing to me. it's a sharing of love and affection.

 

cept you