I'm now in a temporary open relationship; my boyfriend and I decided we can do everything with the same or opposite gender except actually having intercourse. My friend Josh and I have the most incredible emotional and physical connection. He's the most passionate guy I've ever been with. He can arouse me just by running his fingers up the inside of my arm... Now he's more than a year younger than me, and had never even kissed a girl before me. We're probably going to take advantage of this short open relationship I'm in, and do everything we can without crossing the boundary. I want to blow his mind...what are some really creative and unconventional things I can do to him? For example he does this one thing that drives me nuts. He'll kiss an area on my neck, back or shoulder. Then he'll gently suck on it. Then he'll lick it, and while it's still wet, he'll blow cold air on it. It blows me away. and gives me shivers everywhere. I want to give him shivers all over his body, too. Any tips? Note: I've tried most things. Think outside the box.
Try edging him - have him teach you the exact way he likes to masturbate, and slowly do it the same way, and bring him to the edge of orgasm, then bring him down, then up to that point again, then down. Try to do this ten times, and then let him blow his load. Edging takes a lot of communication between the two of you as to when he is about to cum, so you can bring him down. He will come back to you for this again and again.
I always got extremely turned on by gentle, soft touches. It usually started on the back of my neck, with fingers in my hair. Sliding fingers and nails softly across my stomach would be the next erotic touching. Sometimes it would involve slipping a digit into the waistband of my boxers. The next and most erotic touching was the inside of my thighs. Again, soft touching or very gentle scratching starting at the knee and working progressively higher. After the touching, kissing either ensued or was intermingled with the touching in the same places. I was careful not to direct either the touches or the kisses, just to lay back and enjoy. I got so turned on I almost blew my load several times and had to really discipline myself, which was so hard to do. But, those techniques can literally blow one's mind apart!!
He's played around there before, but I don't know how comfortable I would be doing that. Maybe some time if he wants me to, but not the first time we get into oral and such.
i have tried lots of things before that i thought would be fun. trial and error is the quickest way to learn. especially if you know how he looks when he is enjoying what you are doing. that way you know right away if what you are doing is working. one thing that i do that has worked very well for me in the past and gets rave reviews. is using everything you have to massage him. hands, breasts, lips, tongue, mouth. the connection that is felt is intense and the fact that you keep changing it up between the different options leaves a thrill because he never knows what is coming. it is always better with some sort of lubrication, lotion or oil.
It seemed to be on the cards; following your recent post. Still you’re young, free spirited, loving and caring. Better to move on now and find Happiness (and you will do) – again! (He probably had Big ears - anyway!?!) < Peace + Love ~ Save the Planet >
grab his hair gently while u work ur way down towards his penis, e.g. kissing his body or sucking (GENTLY ) on his nipples. oh!! before u do that, kiss him on the lips and then lick his lips. as soon as u do that smile at him so he'll know ur ready to play with him.. oh yea!! he will never forget u .. i am sure of it
oh COME ON!!!!! rly? and i was like giving u the best tips... oh well, u can use these on any guy u'll meet!
Just straight out ask him and give him a couple of examples to show you mean business....b/c typically guys that are sensitive will be like are you sure?.........and his most desirable fantasies will come out
