People that are so whipped by their jealous girlfriends (or boyfriends) that they decide they cant talk to you, even though you were only just friends to begin with....because their significant other is delusional and jealous of the friendship and actually breaks up with them for it (over and over again)..... nothing really shocks me though anymore.
Yeah, a friend of mine recently decided that he couldn't talk to me after his girlfriend read a message of ours. She wanted to know why him and I were having messanger conversations at four am. Gee, I don't know. Maybe it's because we have been friends for years before they met? Think I should I call repeatedly and annoy the hell out of her?
people are stupid. i cannot stand it when people get jealous too. jealousy sucks. it's one of the worst emotions that there is.
once i was in this frustrating long-distance relationship. i was going through some tough times financially, but i still (stupidly) ran up a huge long-distance phone bill calling this guy in arizona. my best friend at the time happened to be male, and he paid my phone bill for me, so i could continue calling my sweetheart. but when my "sweetheart" found out that another man paid my phone bill, he accused me of living with the guy! what was ironic about this was that before he headed out west, we were seeing each other behind the back of my alcoholic boyfriend, who'd been too drunk for me to break up with & have him understand what was going on. he didn't go so far as to demand i stop hanging out with my friend (both guys were named david) but he made it quite clear he didn't approve, at all.
I agree with you there. Jealousy means that there is a certain lack of trust in the relationship. Relationships are built on trust, so in my opinion, that's bad. I'd take it as a sign of trouble if jealous feelings ever crept into my marriage.
YEP, my husband wold be the jealous girlfriend! but i don't stop hanging out with friends cuz he is a jerk. I don't really hang out with any girls so all my friends are guys and my husband is paranoid that something is going on with all of them. even if it is someone who i have known for years and never once had a crush on them. he is so weird!!
I used to have that problem. She'd say, "its them or me", and I'd say "sorry". Now if a girl gives me an ultimatum, I send her packing immediately. Even if it's something I would've done for her had it been a request. Ultimatums are lousy....
i fucking hate that shit. i was best friends with this guy named daniel, nobody quite understoond our friendship. we didnt have the slightest romantic interest in each other, yet we knew each other better than we knew ourselves. anyways, then he started going out with this fucking bitch named jessica. she didnt want me talking to him in front of her. so i just grabbed him and kissed him, and she dumped him. he was grateful. yep, i hate people like that.
I definitely can understand where you're coming from. People like that have a horrible existance anyways, they're so insecure, they walk around on eggshells every minute of the day, ready to pounce on every person of the opposite sex who even give a casual glance to their significant other. Sounds like it would be a tiring existance, to me...
I just let um cheat on me. Then I leave um. Who the hell needs to worry about a chick (or guy) who would do that anyway.
i dunno. you've noticed i'm turning down the sex-pot a little. dave's all frazzled with his work and our moving and selling our house, he needs a little extra security. when he's back to feeling fit and confident again, we both enjoy our reindeer games. i think it's just being sensitive. it's not like dave told me to or even requested it, but he's feeling insecure about everything right now, so i'm just reassuring him. seems fair to me.
I had a chic one time threaten to shoot out my kneecaps because I was at her house ONE TIME with a friend of mine, and apparently her boyfriend thoughtI was cute. #1, her boyfriend was a gross, sweaty, redneck mullet-head. #2, I was like 13 and he was 30 something. ewww. I didn't even know about it at first, until one day when was walking to my friends house a week or more later, (she lived across the street from them) and when I came up to her driveway, my friend came running out and grabbed me and made me run into her house and explained to me that what that bitch had said. Fucking psychos.