A lady on tv said

That masturbation was cheating. What do you think?

I can't put my finger on it quite yet.

 

I don't think it's cheating. Actually it probably helped prevent a few std's for some people.

I voted no.

What do you think Bellfire?

 

I just don't believe it's cheating.

 

sounds like somthing martha stewart would say.

 

of course not!

 

Yes, because I agree with the lady's philosiphy. If he's doing that then he's dreaming of someone else. (Or worse, he prefers his hand over me.)

 

i just thought o this. if someone does think its cheating, and they feel guilty about it, when they confess it to their significant other what do they say?


i have to confess, ive been cheating on you.....
OMG WITH WHO
.......................myself..........


you must be on crack to think that

 

That is so silly.

 

No way. Masterbation is a way to teach yourself about your own sexuality. If anything, I think it would only benifit the relationship.

 

No, No, No! She had a husband that was a cheater. He also was a masterbature so that means he probally has dreams of other women. (He's a fantasy cheater as well as a regular one.) She probally thinks, what chance do I have if he rather dream of other women than spend time with her.

 

Masterbation is not cheating. Her husband is.

 

When I first got married I didn't understand the male anatomy. No one ever talked to me about masturbating because society as a whole looks at it like a sin. Then I got a lil' older and I got to talk openly about it with my husband. I pretty much felt like you do back then until him and I had our talk(s). I don't feel like he is cheating and to be honest I am not cheating on him. That maybe too much information HOWEVER my point is it is normal for people to masturbate.

Have you ever tried talking to your man about it? I don't know how openly you are with one another. When I first brought it up I got this look> but once we were comfortable talking about it the look got changed to > well, maybe that was what my face looked like.

Please don't think any less of me for sharing this information.

 

i dont think i could possibly think any less of you

oh, and some people dont belong on tv, they rather belong on the end of a rope tied to the back of a car

 

Ah ha...Thanks Mr. MiGu

 

Oh gosh, gee willy whiskers...masturbation is not cheating. that is just silly.

 

Why do you think that if someone who's in a relationsip is masturbating then they must be thinking of someone else? That makes no sense.

 

does that mean that when a masturbator enters a relationship, they begin cheating on their hand?

 

lol... clever... Here's hoping the results of this poll will help you figure out where to put that finger, eh?

 

I think masterbation saves lives. If people didn't they would be WAY more likely to be violent.

 

agreed, good point