gay or straight???(help)

ok there is this guy in my school who stares at me during class
im not funny looking and i make sure to clean things off my face
so i know he doesnt stare at me for those reasons LOL

at first i was just dismissing it as whatevers..and did not really think
he might be gay...until this friday during class
when i decided to go back a few seats from where i originally sit
so that i could talk to this friend of mine..
as i was talking to her i looked his way and noticed he stared at where
i originally sit and noticed i was not there so he looked around the class
and until made eye contact with me!!!
(as if he was thinking "oh there he is")

am i just fooling myself or is there a chance he is gay??
whenever he looks me in the eyes i could just feel it!!
but im not 100% sure...ahhhhhh!!
know what i mean?????

i KNOW most of you have been thru something like this
so pls let me know what you guys did about it
and if ur feelings where right

thnx

 

You KNOW we've been through something like this? I haven't.

First off - are you gay yourself? Personally, it sounds like the dude may have a little thing to you...There's a fair chance he's gay or bi, but don't count on it. Sometimes I find myself staring at the same random person just by complete coincidence, even if I have absolutely no interest in them. I guess the fact that he actually looked about the class for you is different though...I think he probably does kinda like you.

 

Maybe he does have the hots for you. If you're not gay or bi, it shouldn't have any affect on you.
Do you want him to hit on you?
When I was a straight ,married businessman, I had been hit on by plenty of gay guys, in my business, but I never made a move with any of them. It was sort of flattering that they found me attractive.

 

Find a way to talk to him. Ask him something about the class, an assignment, whatever. At least open the door to see if he might be someone to know...even if he's not intersested sexually, he might be someone worth knowing. Have fun.

 

If you're gay, and you see potential, try talking to him. If you’re straight, just enjoy the ogling as a compliment. Just be careful how you deal with it, you don't want to find out that he wasn't staring at you, rather someone else, and get totally embarrassed.

 

thank you all for replying to my thread..
i appreciate it...ALOT!

YES i am GAY and thats the reason why i wanna know if there
is a chance he is b/c i would lovet to date him

HE's HOTT!! lol

but yeah keep the advices coming

and once again..THNX!

-------> STAYHIGH

 

You never know. I met a guy and we hit it off. One thing lead to another and I asked him over to my place for dinner. I was 100% sure he was gay. I was in a state of arousal waiting for him to show up. After dinner when I felt very relaxed I asked him if he wanted to have sex. He told me he wasn't gay. I then told him I would suck his cock and he didn't have to do anything. Unfortunately, he wasn't into guys sucking his cock. What asking did was put an end to obsessing over him.