Ive lost my virginity and am really confused...What should I do?

^ what he said.

Couldn't have said it any better.

 

Every guy pays for sex one way or another. Gifts, flowers, Wine, dinner, looking good, smelling good, trying hard to baag you in. Its normal.

THe other guy obvioulsy did his job. and thats that. You broke your bond with your boyfriend. You will never feel the same with him and you relationship will end pretty soon For one reason or another.
You obviously need toys and want to be taken for a ride. So go for it!

 

so 1 man seduced you, and you still have some clingy kid boyfriend who wants to get with you too. to be honest, i think that they are both wrong for you, you should peacefully break ties with both of them, and move on.

 

yep this 28 yr old just gettin him some, i bet the kid really loves you. imagine how many girls this guys probably sweet talked before..

 

haha... that's helpful!

 

to be honest.. i think u shud not give it to him (28) that easily next time... that way u'll c his reaction and u'll know if he's some guy who just wants to feel like a high scl teenager or if he likes u and understands. oh btw.. almost all of ur relationships may (most prob) end up in a breakup... since we're young and have a long way 'till we settle.. so, rite now, u shud also consider having fun. but be careful 'bout ur other boyfriend too.. if u want him and u think he'll get better then dont tell him anything cuz u'll lose him for sure..

ALSO, next time, watch out with who ur having sex with. its ur bagina so ur responsible for it and USE PROTECTION!!

 

what a lot of twoddle you folk talk........this kid has something going for her.....otherwise the guy she allowed to break her hymen wouldnt have wanted her...have none ot you realised that at 17 most women in the world have a husband. with sex every night.
only in such a backward country as the USA could such puritan principles be discussed and indeed taken seriously..........when will such people come into reality.

 

The 28 year old piece of shit needs his ass kicked

 

Yeah, and in most parts of the world people still live in huts and cook outside like its the 1200's.

And you're from China, China has a MUCH more restrictive policy when it comes to marriage and parenthood and all of that. Families that start with the husband and wife being really young usually have really big families. China's had a problem with that for the past 50 years at least, and as of right now they only let families have 1 kid.

A 17 year old doesn't need to be married, and they don't need a family. What they need is a college education, to make some money, get a house, so they have the resources to get married and raise a family. Sex is a whole different issue though. This girl shouldn't be fucking 28 year old men.

 

^^ Seconded.

 

I think you should really be honest with your boyfriend, regardless of you breaking up with him or not. Didn't his feelings cross your mind?

But what about this girl? As far as we know this 28 year old sure was a superficial player, but he wasn't cheating. She was, though.

 

as far as i'm concerned a 28 year old should not be messing around with a 17 year old

 

You've been played. Are girls this shallow?

 

Not all of them are that shallow. Also, not all of us are this obsessed over material goodies. Each to their own though