My boyfriend really wants me to give him head, but I've never done it before and I don't know if it I want to.... it sounds unpleasant. also, I gag really easily. I love him and want to pleasure him the way he does me.... how do I get over this? any suggestions?
if u dont want to, dont but if u want to please there are other ways like the normal hand job but it depends if u have already done that or not and there are other ways of pleasing him u just have to find his weak spot like kissing him on the neck. or other stuff but post me if u want any other ideas. luv CrYsTaL x x x
It's not hard giving head. You don't need to take the whole thing down your throat, just the tip of his penis into your mouth. Lick his shaft, suck like crazy, and enjoy yourself. Oh, and when he cums, just swollow, if it tastes bad, you'll be able to taste it less if you just swollow down quick...
I totally disagree, you do what you feel comfortable with or it will put you off forever and you'll never want to do it again. therefiore you will miss out on what can be a beautiful and satisfying act of love and caring for you and your partner
True, and if he really cares about you then he wont make you, or over preasure you to do somthing your uncomfortable with. p.s. it seems like everyone is having sex way to early/young around here! use protection! *public service announcement off*
haha, thats what I think its like you might as well pass out condoms to kids at halloween when i was younger, I was scared of penis
OK, yes, fair enough... I'm just saying that if he is going to cum her her mouth, it will taste less bad if she just swollows it down quick...
You can buy a liquid that you can put on the roof of your mouth, that numbs the gag reflex. If you have a sex shop anywhere near you, im sure they will sell it. I have a friend that has her own fun party buisness. you can go to www.fun-too.com and check out her stuff. If for some reason you dont see what you are looking for, you can send her an email and she will help you out. The stuff will arrive quick too so your boyfriend will be happy!
Can someone tell me about this gag-reflex thing please? I know what it is, but unless you're giving deep throat, you should not get it surely? I've never recieved deep throat myself, but I would have though the idea of giving a BJ is to worship the penis with your mouth, lips and tounge... not to try and shove it as far down your throat as you can I've seen porn movies of deep throat, and tbh, I'd rather that person giving head was enjoying it, rather than choking on my penis, turning red and coming close to throwing up. So is that what you're on about when you talk about getting the gag-reflex, when giving deep throat? or do you mean getting it when giving any type of oral?
The gag reflex does not mean you have to shove a penis as far down in your mouth as possible lol. Most of the women we sell our product to gag when the penis hits the part of your mouth, twards the back, right behind that ball on the roof of your mouth. Some women do it when it hits any part of the roof of their mouth.
my opinion will be kinda bias, i enjoy swallowing cum..so i would suggest it. as for how much of his penis in your mouth, the tip is the most sensitive.
true. and also, the yuvula/also uvula, is what makes us gag if we can't swallow, just suck on it as far in as comfortable u can be, then use your hands on the rest of his shaft to stimulate more, making alot of moans and slushy noises always works good too! good luck!
