Yes, My fiancee has always been the skinny little gothic chick, and I used to be the chunky little nerd boy when we started dating, but I've actually gotten in better shape since we've started dating. Girls find a bigger man sexy, that's who they want to love, to be loved by, to start a life with.
I agree. Sure, a six pack is hot,but it isn't worth crap without a good sence of humor. Inner qualities are much more apealling than outer ones to me. An ugly personality can make the most attractive body, look gross to me. Being healthy is also very important though,and people, in general, are more visually attracted to people in better physical conditon.
if it's love, it's love and it shouldn't matter what size he or you are, you know? shoot, i love chunky guys, they're so adorable, and i would take them over a skinny guy any day. plus, they are usually really nice and upstanding guys compared to the skinnies. personality is way more important than looks to me. intelligence and humor is all that i need. =] and i guess this whole thing could be based on the fact that i'm a chubby chick, but whatever...love is love, you know? i just wish more guys my age would realize that... oh well, i've got all the time in the world to wait for someone who loves me. =]