Do you feel guilty when...

after you masturbate?

 

I used to, but i don't anymore

 

I've never felt guilty about masturbating - Far from it - If anything just the opposite.

Ever since the first time I experienced it I always felt a certain level of pride that I had been blessed with such a gift of nature.

 

No...!

 

no way, why should anyone feel guilty ?

 

Masturbating is not a crime. So why am I supposed to feel myself guilty? There's no reason for that.

 

i dont know
i just feel weird after i cum
like when i get it on my hand. i think "i shouldnt have masturbated"

 

Why feel guilty about something that feels great?? It's your body..Enjoy it. I raised 3 sons.When boys are about 6-7 months old they discover their penis..they touch themselves because it feels good.."Look honey..he found his pee pee"..There is no guilt involved then..Years go by and it still feels good.. Mommy,daddy or grandparents see it and say" Stop that!! you're not a baby anymore " but it feels good so you do it anyway..and don't let anyone know that you "touch yourself"..ohhhh..bad boy..shouldn't do it because mommy said so..hence the guilt..

 

Why would someone feel guilty???

 

never felt guilty.

 

Zakarrah answered those who asked why should you feel guilty. It is instilled in you by sex-negative people. Not just one or two ppl but a whole puritanical culture of them.

When I was just starting to masturbate as a young teen I too felt guilty but that was in the 1950's and the US was a much more sex-negative place. (Which is why so many of us dropped out of that hypocrisy a decade later and made our own rules about sex.)

There was no sex-ed, no internet to secretly get info on what was going on with our bodies, just a few misguided teen boys who knew no more than the others. A little trickle down knowledge from someone's older brother was all we could hope for because the adults were rarely open about "the birds and the bees" conversation. Gaaack what a dark ages I grew up in

No, do not feel guilty. It is quite natural to JO and even animals do it. At your age if you don't release it yourself, it will squirt out of you in your sleep.

So, enjoy masturbating without guilt.

 

I did when I was younger

 

dood i just finished like 3 minutes ago...not an ounce of guilt

 

WOO HOO!!! Me..3 times today..

 

At 14 I was getting over the guilt. Anything we don't want other people to know about makes us feel guilty. I remember in scouts hearing a couple dudes talking about it and feeling relieved. "I'm not the only one in the world doing it!" Since that liberating moment, not a bit of guilt.

 

its my choice, so i dont feel ashamed or guilty

 

Sometimes for the dumbiest reasons, when I masturbate to porn, after I do it. I think, "What's wrong with me?" I then I think about the girl that's in the porno and think about her parents and how she ended up like the way she is.

 

Well, that's put very well in the post of Zakarrah. I don't mean that you should feel guilty, but there's the reason a lot of people of my generation do feel guilty. So it's all about what you're told at an early age.

 

I have an Islamic friend who is an utter prude when it comes to matters of sex which, to be honest, is utterly hypocritical. I've known him since long before he was married & there was no stopping him sexually. He openly employed prostitutes to visit him to meet his needs & when he was unable to get any he would excuse himself for a few minutes while he went into the bedroom to masturbate.

Now, while I am all in favour of a frank & open attitude such as this, I find it a little annoying that once he got married he adopted a total "Holier Than Thou" approach, and even after his wife died & he was left with 2 teenage sons he still refuses to approach the subject of anything sexual with them - in fact he once told me about how horrified he was to discover them masturbating together one day (aged 13 & 14), and was shocked when I refused to support him in his outrage & sided with the boys, pointing out that it was a perfectly normal, natural & healthy thing for boys of that age to do & that no matter what he said there was no way he was ever going to get them to stop, and that it would be wrong for him to even attempt to do so.

Whenever I visit, if I have a reason to go up to the boys' bedrooms I always make it a point to knock before entering - something they have told me that they greatly appreciate, mainly for that very reason, and it is because of that level of trust that they frequently confide in me in personal matters whenever they need advice.

I know that if I were a father myself, I would most certainly be open with my children & give them full support regarding any matters of a sexual nature. One thing's for certain, they would never be embarrassed to ask me about anything they needed to know.

 

i've never felt guilty, i just like to touch it, i love the way it feels