Virgo and Taurus love compatibility.....

Hey all,

need a bit help.

i am a taurean girl. i like my colleague who is a virgo. i have read it almost everywhere that taurus and virgo get on like house on fire and that happened with us for sure.

we became friends in wink's time and thats quite noticable since me being taurus and him being a virgo, we both are shy and introvert to strangers.

but there started growing this unrelenting attraction towards him in my mind. i wrote to him once that i like him. i made it plain that i wasnt asking him out or something but it was plain admiration on my part which i thought i should let him know.

as God had it in his mind, i had to change my cubicle and thadddaaa one fine day i moved in his cubicle and since then we have grown quite close in terms of friendship. we talk talk and talk, we fight a lot though i feel we both are equally orthodox and conservative.

then he started flirting outrageously and i didnt know what to do. i was happy on one side and puzzled on the other cause one part of my brain told me to take it as a joke and timepass on his part but my heart tells me that he means something but he isnt sure.

is this some kinda virgo trait? i think he has a troubled past..kinda relationship gone sour types...something that has left bitter taste in his mouth, something that has made him impervious to feelings and especially to love. he tells me that when right time comes he will tell me everything and then he adds that i am the only person he feels like opening his heart to.

please guide me what should i do! i have eyes only for him and he knows it. he knows that i care and sometimes he cares too but he wouldnt show.


please tell me if i should wait patiently for him to fall for me.......or its just waste of time on my part..........attraction is there but i am looking for something more than just electric currents that pass when he touches me...

a taurus and a virgo, we are the most compatible couple on paper but will we really be that way?????

 

Coming from a tried and true Virgo: Wait patiently for him to fall for you. This is the absolute most important thing, and I cannot stress how important it is when dealing with a Virgo to be extremely patient and never push things along or pry with questions. Especially in love! What you say about him having a bitter taste in his mouth, and how it may be linked to past relationship issues, this COULD be.. but bear in mind that all Virgos by nature are very distant, stiff, and a bit cold. A lot goes on inside Virgo that others can never see, because they hide it so well. But there are also occasional clues that can come out in a Virgo's personality which reveal their hidden agenda: The way you said he outrageously flirts with you. I can vouch for my own Virgo self that if I start flirting with somebody, it means inside a side of me is crazy for them, even though the actual act of flirting is intended as a little lighthearted fooling (even though it really isn't!) I'm sorry if I've confused you by now lol, but let me say this;

You are a Taurus and he is a Virgo; Indeed, you are both very cautious, conservative, practical. But inside, love to these two is a completely different game. Taurus is in the start of the zodiac cycle, consequently, right after Aries. Therefor, Taurus is charged with a whole lot more sexual energy than Virgo is, plus the fact that Taurus is Venus ruled (which really pumps up the love) and Virgo is Mercury ruled (intellect over passion). I'm not saying you want to jump right into bed with him, but sexual energy is a main contributing factor to how each plays his or her cards in the game of love.

The point I'm getting at is, wait for him. Be very cautious, don't ever push too far or put him in a situation that will make him uncomfortable. Virgos are highly sensitive to patterns and if you disrupt what he has going on the inside with you, then you could discourage him for forever. Virgos are very honest. If he is saying you mean something to him and he flirts with you occasionally, he is trying to get it out there that he likes you, but in his own cautious way. Given the right time, even the smallest spark within a Virgo can develop into a beautiful, seemingly perfect relationship. If you like being in control of things, try to relinquish this as much as possible in your Virgo's presence. Doing this may be difficult and may fill you with suspicions that he is just a power hungry control freak, but in reality it's just the Virgo assuming that all of his hours of constant, restless analyzing has led him to the best possible conclusion, and denying him of that idea may cause him to completely block you out. Besides, it usually is the best conclusion anyway ^^

Remember, make him laugh, make him comfortable, keep it friendly and playful. Don't delve anywhere past lighthearted conversation unless he gives you a reason to feel that it's okay. And for goodness sakes, give him patience and space! :]