i am left a bit confused with this plant of mine, thinking it was a male and was about to bin it today but it is looking like a bit of both now: male and female as it is dropping its flowers and leaving those white spikes on it. HELP what do i do. thanks for your replies
Cut the branches off Right at the stem ( the ones that have balls ). Make sure you get them all and you should still be okay to flower.
If it was a female showing a couple male flowers maybe - but the other way around normally there are not enough female flowers to justify the effort. Unless it is a learning experience.