Guys treat you sooo differently when you are taken

everyone from homeboy at 7-11 to co-workers...they just aren't as nice. I guess my mom was right all these years when she said a lot of guys pretend to be nice to get in your pants...I just thought guys were genuinley good people and always nice.

 

depends on what guy......

 

good point...I shouldn't generalize

 

I know plenty of guys that are nice without trying to get into my pants. Maybe you just know some shitty people.

 

no one wants to get into my pants, the smell and leakage drives them away...

I don't really pay attention of who is nice to me and why.. I am just glad that people associate themselves or talk with me at all..

 

I'm only nice to people who deserve it.

I'm also not nicer to women I want to seduce. I'd usually only want to seduce someone who was deserving of being treated nicely.

... But i'm not going out of my way to be sweet to someone I want to fuck. First of all it doesn't work like that. "Hi, your hair looks nice." Isn't getting anyone laid.

 

Maybe you're just less bearable now Lyns.

 

i actually prefer talking to girls when they are already involved...it lets them know that: "hey, i'm aware that your in a relationship and i respect that, and i still want to get to know and talk to you" it forms a much better subconscious vibe...very rewarding for both sexes...if that makes sense. and the girls who arent involved should in turn interpret that as integrity and honesty, which naturally shines through

 

hey!!! No, guys are totally nice, until they notice the ring and then they all of a sudden stop being all friendly and talkative. We live in a small town where people are REALLY NICE. Boys suck-that's my conclusion -forumers excluded of course.

 

I wear a silver ring on my left hand. Most of the time guys think I'm married. Again you must know some crappy people.

 

Maybe they realize you're taken and are upset that they can't have you.

 

Hehe, well that can be the case.

 

Hmmm, see personally, I don't notice that at all, but then again, maybe the so-called nice men have hopes that I might be a lonely and bored housewife. *laughs*

 

It seems quite the opposite to me. I find "taken" women easier to be nice to and be friends with because they don't immediately assume that you’re trying to get in their pants.

 

There are some guys who barely talk to me now that Im in a relationship. The funny thing is there was never anything going on between us, but whenever we talk on msn, they always start talking with all this enthusiasm and when they ask me what have I been up to and I mention the word boyfriend, there is ALWAYS no reply. It kinda sucks really, but I dont really care.
I think I know too many shitty guys (maybe I know too many Dominican guys? I hate stereotypes but if you lived there, you would see clearly this is not one, there are the very rare exceptions), because I usually either get the "let me ignore you after the boyfriend word" or the guys who start flirting with me, even though Im so far away, who I tell to shut up and that I have a boyfriend and they are just my friend blah blah blah, who tell me "what do you having a boyfriend has to do with anything? that's your problem, not mine"?, to what I replied "maybe it would be a problem, if I actually wanted you to be flirting with me?". You should see my msn block list, it's all guys who I've been proven too many times, I just cant talk to. It used to make me kinda sad, because a lot of these people I really thought they were my friend.

 

Hell, I'm always nice to women, whether they're attached or not.. probably cause none of 'em would want to fuck me anyway, so what's there to lose

 

i'm nice to all ladies and still try to get in their pants

 

Hehe. You just miss the attention.

 

Nope. Guys suck.

 

Um. Flirting is a goal in itself actually. I flirt with EVERY fucking body.