If it ever happened...

who's the person that disappointed/hurt you the most among those that you love(d)/care(d)?

 

Peanuts for already being happily married before we found this site.

 

My mother. That woman has emotionally abused me my whole life. And she allowed other people to abuse me. And she has betrayed me many times.

As for people I've been involved with romantically: a certain ex who physically and emotionally abused me. Then kicked me out of my home so that he could be with my best friend. That asshole really screwed up my life.

 

everyone

no, It was someone whom I thought was my best friend and he was everything to me and it turns out he was a piece of shit, who did something that I will never ever forgive him for..and i hope his balls rot off...

 

I guess my ex. She said right before we got married that cheating would be the one unforgivable sin.

I was faithful, she wasn't.

 

ive usually cause the hurt/disappointment

 

Myself.

 

I agree w/ both of olhip's posts. The only difference being that I was never married to the antichrist (ahem) I mean my kid's mom.

 

I think that at some point in a long term relationship (and family is probably the worst here as it's long term without you having a choice) you end up doing things that will inadvertantly hurt someone. As long as the hurt was not caused intentionally I don't think one should dwell on it. Work through it but when it's over let it go.. and spend somes time thinking of ways in which you will not cause hurt again (especially the unintentioned disappointments).

 

my first girlfriend...but where friends agian so where cool now

 

Sebastian (I'm just gonna call him by his first name, coz I don't know what he is to me right now... is he my ex, my boyfriend, my twin soul, my friend, or what...) He has made some decisions in his life that have broken my heart many times. I can understand why he has done what he has done, but it still doesn't make it any easier.

 

I think probably myself, actually.

hmmm...

 

Probably by boyfriend, myself, and maybe my mother. I forgive my mom and don't blame Ben because I do this to myself for no breaking up with him.

 

the real question is who hasnt hurt me?? my sister.

 

Ooooo, I just found this thread.

I have so much to say to that but all that I am able to say is Thank you. Don't be mad or diappointed. I just know your Angel is coming.

 

My first Love however I forgive him now. We were young. He cheated on me and I never knew it until we broke up. I was torn. I do wish I had the chance to tell him I'm sorry because I was so angry and hurt. I said some terrible things to him.

 

My ex-boyfriend's best friend. We were way closer then me and my boyfriend would ever be, and I fell completely and 100% in love with him. And he knew it. I thought he had feelings for me too, but in the end it turned out he was just using me cause he knew I would do anything to be with him.

After I was drugged at the bar, the one and only person I wanted to tell was him. I just needed him to hug me, and to tell me that everything was going to be alright. He hasn't spoken to me since. I guess I'm damaged goods now.

 

My ex fiance disappointed me the most

 

I'm usually a disappointment.

 

Not to me.