So...here is a story about a "friend"

I have known this girl since I was 14.... we were best friends in high school, etc...

Anyways I'm not gonna go into too much details about certain things cause she posts here...

But... this past year and a half we've smoked together a lot.... except the past three months or so.... every time she has weed she has some excuse not to smoke with me... even though me and Josh drove to her place more then once to smoke her up with our tree...

Here is where it gets weird...
The past couple months every now n then I'll text her and see if she can get me some smoke or smoke me up...whatever... cause we've always done both for each other.... and there is always some reason why she can't....
BUT...
in the past couple months she has started texting me randomly just being like "I AM SOOOO HIGH"--- often right after I would tell her I was stressed n really wanted to smoke, etc....

this morning at 7 am she texted me "IM SOOO HIGH" so I wrote back "gonna smoke me up? I'll give you a couple valium"... she actually wrote "sorry, can't, i'm cleaning"
I wrote back "all day? hahaha"
She wrote "pretty much"

I mean what kinda excuse is that?
And what kinda friend acts like that?

It's annoying.

Annoying!

 

personality disorder. i think.

 

nah...

she's just stingy, and doesn't even care enough to try and hide it.

 

Actually
she has also made me fake boyfriends and friends throughout the years.

She has some problems... speech problems and such and was made fun of a lot... well anyways... she has this fake friend that she said her boyfriend and brothers met but i asked them (her brothers and boyfriend) and they never met him...weird...

I actually did call her out once... .when I was drunk.... on the phone... about the fake friends....
that is when she started getting stingy with her weed. lol.

I WOULD just cut her off but I've known her FOREVER and in a way she's like a sister to me. I do care about her but....

 

She likes to inflict jealousy.

Payback or Passive..your choice.

 

Yeah I think she tries to get me jealous...

or something...

My husband, when I told him about it today.... was like "um she's just nuts, I highly doubt she even had any tree".... Which I can't prove cause she knows my car is in the shop n I was asking her to come here... BUT... she LOVES benzos and I cant see her turning down valiums if she had weed to trade... I just wish I woulda told her I had my car back and that I would just stop over at her place for a bit...
Then I coulda called her out on what I think was a lie to make me jealous to begin with....

Stupid....

 

old friends can be so annoying

the guy I know from kindergarten constantly yawns on the phone and in person, gained like 100 pounds, watches shit like Even Stevens during warm summer afternoons, is the worst storyteller in history but makes you sit through them anyway, and rejected so many offers to go out and do things that I stopped calling him

I kind of don't like him but I love him

 

Too be honest, she sounds a bit like me. Making friends, girlfriends, shit like that up to make yourself appear better.

But lying about your weed situation, in order to save some for yourself, is something else I would do.

I smoke alone, and on rare occasions, with a friend. And when people want to hang out/smoke with me, I make an excuse, not because I want to save weed, but because I'm not the 'out going' kind of guy. SA doesn't help either.

 

The thing is thesong... she doesn't HAVE to make up friends and boyfriends and stuff to make herself appear better.... she got called out for it by my friend Jeremy, who she dated a few times.... and said she changed and was always insecure cause her disabilities..understandable...but she hasn't changed...

And as far as the weed situation.... yeah, save for yourself... but don't refuse to smoke people up that smoke you up. Duh.

gary...
that's exactly how it is.. old friends that you don't even really like a lot of the times but you love them and therefore cant get rid of them.

 

I agree. I have a friend from high school who asked me to throw her a baby shower...she can't even remember my fiance's name. I talk baout him all the time so there is no excuse. I told her no on the baby shower and crocheted her a baby blanket out of feelings of obligation.

She is sooo selfish whenever she is with a guy...so now that she is married she is eterna into herself and could give a shit about anyone else girl.
But we've been friends for so long I just can't seem to sever it.
Trish, homegirl sounds just plain mean.

 

Yeah, I'm about done with her I think.

I KEEP forgiving her for being a bitch.

Oh and she is TOTALLY different when she's in a relationship. She's one of those people who does not understand how to have a man AND friends. Lame.

 

Forgiving those who were in the wrong is okay.

Forgiving those who knew they were in the wrong, but did it anyway are a different story.

I'm sure you will make the right choice.

 

Come visit me Lucky, I'll share my spliff with you

 

Yay

Thanks