The people i've been "friends" with for the last while, i feel its just time to drop them all. Because, for the most part i started associating with them because i was lonely at the time and didn't have anyone to hang out and iwas deseperate, they were friends with the few friends i did have and i didn't really like them but didn't want to be an ass/be in conflict with people my "friends hung with. and those friends i met them those are just kinda distant now, and honestly i think they're really fucking idiots as well, because they always judge me and want me to live up to their standard of what is cool and shit, but honestly their interests are kinda dull to me and what they value is very different from what i value. i can't be comfortable around any of them, , i feel i have o put a mask on for them and be someone they view me as before they knew, first impression and at the same time i feel none deserve to get to tknow the real me. ah rambles, fuck them i hope they ahve great lifes i don't need em.
I know what your saying. Similar situation, its my last year of high school and I've come to realize that MOST of the people I became friends with, I have absolutely nothing in common with. Mostly I just sit and listen to what they have to say, but I usually do my own thing anyways. I usually find a rare few who I go and hang out with or I go my separate way and do what i want and find enjoyable...alone. To me it wouldn't make that much of a difference if they where there, because I know I'd be the only one enjoying what i wanted to do while they sit on the side and complain about everything. And funny thing is I've made some new friends along the way, doing my own thing, who I have common interests with. So I say good for you!!!! You'll make friends who you can actually have a decent time with
Agree with sweet, and yeah man, I've been kind of in the same situation myself. I'm just in a smaller school with less people to really pick and choose from (like under 300 people in my highschool lol), so it's a pain. They're all immature as shit, and bitch and moan about little things, and are all just now meeting the stage where they question organized religion. They love to shun creative or outside thinking, which is awesome, because it helped me not grow even a little bit in my time here. Since I've realized how little they fit with me though, and just acting like myself anyway, I've met some cool kids through non-school friends. Yeah man, just drop them; it's not worth having fake friends if you have better ones around
man i here what your saying, well kinda. i think ima have to go through that next year. ive formed some very tight relationships with my class mates but all accept a select few are going to a differnt high school leaving me at a differnt one. im not gonna have but a couple aquatinces at this school and ill prob have to be friends with people i dont like much just to have friends at all. oh well well climb that hill when we get there i guess.
Who freaking befriends people they don't like...? And what's so wrong with having not much in common with people, how do you people learn things if you hang out with people who are the same...? And it's great that you can just ditch people you once considered friends, how noble and wonderful of you... I am sure they will break out in tears..
It's a pity... to hang out with people you don't really want as friends just cause they're available and the only ones around... But it's not cool to be a loner either... I don't know what to say... Perhaps you could find at least one true friend somewhere, close to where you live, not necessarily from school, and spend some nice time together...
as senseless as it is to befriend people you don't like, i do it constantly. i have kind of a pattern with it. first of all i'm extremely anxious and i hate being alone so i have to have people around me at all times. when i start hanging out with someone because they're available i learn things about them way too fast and i start to get really annoyed and disgusted with them. the worst part is i have on many occasions completely dropped people from my life, even a couple of my best friends. not even like i start acting differently toward them, or being bitchy or anything, i just burn the bridge and cut off all contact. i dont know why but if someone hurts me i completely remove myself from any feelings for them. it sucks because it is really hard for me to make friends and once i do, i can destroy the friendship in two weeks, or worse become very close over several years and then drop them like its nothing. usually not the case though since you probably don't do this. in many situations, they really aren't the right people for you to be around. if you're not comfortable and its not fun, you don't have to be their friend.
