I think my parents smoke!!

ok so i think my parents smoke like once a weekend or every other weekend or once a month or something. Because a lil while back i came into the garage and my mom and stepdad were down there and the garage smelled like weed really bad and the garage door was open. Then just lately my stepdad goes out and when he comes back he stays in the garage and my mom is upstairs. When i go into my room i smelled weed again cause my window was open and i looked down and the garage was open again. Then my stepdad came upstairs and ran into the bathroom. He still smelled like it so i was like "mom wats that smell?? it smells like smoke" and she says "o...i lit an incent" which i think was a load of bullshit. So how can i for sure tell that they smoke? any advice?

ps. My parents are not the hippy type or anything, they are just normal parents who you would never expect to smoke

 

next time you smell that funky smell just "accidently" go out to the garage for some reason and catch him in the act haha then you have a new smoking buddy...or father?

 

dude this is perfect opportunity! talk to them. tell them u know they smoke weed. then when they confirm, tell them u smoke too.

 

Don't tell them you smoke. Catch them in the act, then just be cool with it, maybe they'll open up a little. After that you might convince them to smoke with you.

 

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I don't get what the big deal is

I don't get why they would hide and lie about it to you. They're just setting a bad example for you.

 

I don't think they're setting a bad example. I intend to hide it from my kids until they're out of the house. The risk would be too high of your kid getting pissed at you and threatening to tell, or getting really pissed and actually telling someone you smoke. Way too much damage could be done with that kind of knowledge in the hands of an immature kid.

I believe that weed should be legal to all, but until then it's a good idea to keep it on the down low, or atleast not go around telling people, especially people who are very likely to pass it on.


Jewrican23, what do your parents do for a living, if you don't mind my asking. I always find it interesting to learn that someone you would never expect to smoke actually does. I've always wondered about my doctors, teachers, coworkers, etc. It's neat that people from all walks of life are partaking in the wonderful herb.

Peace

 

Yeah, but if they found it, would you lie about it, too? To me, that's just telling your kids it's ok to hide and lie about things from YOU, and they will when they become teenagers because let's face it, teens do all kinds of shit. Children learn by example, and tbh I think a family grows closer when there are no secrets.

Both of my parents smoke, and I've known this all my life. When I was little they warned me about it and explained what could happen if I told anybody, so I didn't. If you trust your children to be mature about delicate issues, then more often than not, they will be.

Families should be built on trust, not lies.

Of course, this is all my opinion, and I'm not suggesting that you should raise your children any differently.

 

Before my dad died, I got the chance to smoke weed with him.

I was sitting in my living room smoking a joint, because my dad was at work. I had his stereo on, so I couldn't hear him come in the door. He came up from behind me, and hes like Your in deep shit.

I was like FUCK, then he's like, So how long you been smoking, i say about a year. Hes like "Well I been doing it for 20, and that is the shittiest joint I have ever seen"

He showed me how to roll a good joint, then we blazed it. It was kick ass.

 

That's freaking awesome!

My parents have told me they tried smoking once and didn't like it. I figure they just didn't inhale properly since they're not smokers.

And I've seen lawyers standing outside courtrooms blazing lol . . .

 

HAHA thats awesome songremains

 

Lawyers do that because of the stress of their job.

However, if you use marihuana, you have to consider that:
1) you won't be able anymore to do sports on a professional level
2) the smell of your breathing will not be so adorable
3) you will get black longues and a major risk-increase on a heart attack.
4) getting addicted to it cos you lots of money...

 

Forwarventure: they both do stuff with computers, not sure exactly what, but my stepdad makes pretty good money, i think six figures or maybe a lil less

Songremains: thats awesome man!

Before i can like actually go up and talk to them about it im deff gonna have to make sure they actually do it...the only prob is im only there every other weekend and im at my dads the rest of the time, so its hard to catch them in the act or figure it out somehow

 

Now that you inquired i doubt you will catch them in the act, they will be scared and tighten up security or just quit if they were trying.

Now you could lay traps.. say blaze some weed in a spot that would make them curious or confuse them and they will spill the beans.. or weed.. whatever. Just a facial reaction could say it all.

 

video cameras

 

Its funny that this whole situation is turned around and the kid is trying to catch his parents in the act.

 

damn song that would have been so sweet, how was that join he rolled like really tight?

 

dude, most normal people smoke... to be honest, the only folks I know that don't, are quite weird (bible thumping war mongers that drink).

 

a lot of people smoke, get with the program

 

yes i smoke ganja wit mi father all da time. and mi brodas and cosins

 

My pops smokes and its hella chill

He showed me pictures of him and his buddies smoking way back when he was my age and he has pictures of my aunt in a literal field of marijuana