Well after a year with my current girlfriend, we were messing around and I asked her if what I was doing was getting her off. She replayed that it was absolutely doing nothing for her. I WAS OUT OF MY MIND SHOCKED. I have been with about 30 different women and I have a pretty good idea of what I am doing. Every woman is different, but still pretty similar. Now I don't even want to touch her. I am thinking what is the point?? I just don't know what to do. Suggestions? Help? Anything
My gf only masterbated for the first time about 5 months ago. She really has no idea. I am at a total loss. These things usually are pretty similar and familiar to me!
a less experienced lover requires patience. if this is a relationship rather than a hookup, giving up right away isn't the answer. sounds like it's time for some ingenuity. did you ask her what she does like? every person is different. you asked, she gave you honesty. would you rather she lie to you? how many years did you want to do things that were doing nothing for her before you found out?
I would definitely not give up. Like you said, every woman is different, and she just may need a different touch to orgasm. Have you tried sex toys? I also have a hard orgasming and my boyfriend thought it was his fault or he was doing something wrong, so I suggested a vibrator, and that heated up things pretty quickly There's nothing wrong with sex toys - they're not going to replace you, just enhance the sex you're having. My favorite is the Jack Rabbit Vibrator at http://healthyandactive.com/vibrators-rabbit-vibrators.html . They also have tons of other sex toys, so try some out on your lady!
try every thing you know and actully ask her for each mmm..thing you try how does it make her feel and if all you try fails try to stimulate areas you never tried yet. then try romance if shereally is that clueless maybe he still sees sex in a pink teen light and thinks it has to be done with soft music and a romantic evening before
