What was your first toy and how old were you? My first one was a huge pump I purchased in a sex shop. I was so distracted by it that I couldn't get my dick to salute. I was in my 20s. Toys are easier to use for ladies. You want to share your experiences?
The first toy I bought was a penile sleeve / extension / vibrator. However, this turned out to be a total waste of money as because of my ample girth the only way I could fit my penis inside was when it was flaccid seeing as it had no give whatsoever. The vibrator part of it worked on a dual control - only one of which worked. The next one I got was a basic vibrator, which I still have. Next was a gel butt plug - just the right size - easy to insert - problem is, once in it's so comfortable that it's easy to forget you even have it in. I then got another butt plug, with a vibrator built in. This one is much wider & harder - the problem is that I have a very tight rectum & it can be virtually impossible to insert. The most recent toy, however, and my best investment of all time, in my opinion, has been the FleshLight. Although, once again due to my generous girth, the inserts have had limited life spans, they are replaceable, fairly cheap & well worth having.
i got my first toy was a vibrator (I'm male) (Cuz i like anal) that i got at a store in the mall...i looked around and noticed that the 10 inch vibe was the same price as the smaller ones so i said "hey what the hell....it will feel even better" and i was right
Will a makeshift toy count? I first started using the soft jet pulses of my shower nozzle, the curved end of a makeup brush, markers, and my XBOX controller as a vibrator against my clit. However, my first real toy was something used on my husband, not me. Although i was the one who was having the fun with it. It was a vibrating wireless remote controlled penis sleeve. I would use the remote from across the room while making him focus on something else (look for something i hid, play a videogame, play a card game) and of course this was amazingly fun to use for orgasm denial.