This is gonna be a long one, but i really need some advice here since my friends don't know what to tell me and I'm completely out of ideas. Well I've never really had problems with women before but this one is really beyond my skill. Any advice would be appreciated here. So this girl first got my attention by showing the usual signs of liking me. So i did my usual thing of returning the attention and she really seemed receptive at first. Then she sorta just stopped talking to me and ignoring me, so i backed off. We didnt see eachother over winter break from college, but we talked over the internet and she seemed extremely receptive to me again, but when we got back to school she was back to ignoring me again. So my comp broke for a while and i didnt talk to her for sometime until i went to some frat party she happened to be at. Well with the right amount of alocohol in both of us we ended up confessing our feelings for each other and getting rather physical in my room. We didnt have any form of sex because i told her that i really didnt want us to have our first time with each other just because we were hammered. She seemed alright with that and she slept with me and i walked her to her room the next day. After that i was really busy for about a week with school work but i got my computor fix,and once i did she started sending me messages and seeming interested again. So i asked her to go on a date with me and it went really really well, and he roommate said she was really happy after words and said she would really like to date me. So i couldnt get in contact with her for the rest of the week because she was never on line, and she has no cell phone. So i asked her roommate to tell her to come to my room so i could talk to her but she hasnt seen her around really. Saturday i went with her roommate and a few friends to a party and she eventually showed up. So i started talking to her but she seemed completely uninterested again. Now theres only a few days left before we go home and i want to solidify this thing now and get either a yes or no out of her so i dont have to worry about this. her roommate says she does this to every guy that likes her but im the only one she ever went on a date with so that surpirsed her. I dunno exactly what i should do i've never met such an enigmatic girl before and i really like her and i think she likes me but i think she has a problem with affection. If anyone has some advice for me I'd really like to hear it.
Sounds like a cocktease to me. Try fucking one of her friends. After that, I'm sure she'll come around.
Hahaha thats good advice, but i think I'm alright on her friends they're a little painful on the eyes.
So it goes with girls this age...my advice....if you are looking to "get some" just totally ignore her and for god's sake STOP talking to her roomies about her...just know that everything you say to them is getting back to her. Girls will be girls. If you are looking for something "meaningful" just confront her....sit her down alone and put it on the table...if nothing comes of it just let it go and move on. You are at that age where you will not listen to someone older, but trust me, this too will pass : ) Girls are nutty....I know, I'm one of them.
*Autumn*Epona* pretty much summed it up if you are looking for sex(which I don't think you do) just ignore her if she comes back she comes back if you do look for something more I talk to her but I will say more that she can agree with you and then start acting the same in that case you just givr her the same medicne (ignore her) that might drive her crazy becuase she is used to be in control of her guys and give you a slight chance to make something of this mess
We'll I'd like to say thanks for all the replies. Just as a note no im not just looking to get some i really think that i could have something with her, but i mean if nothing happens im not gonna die of heartbreak I know theres plenty of other women out there, I just happen to like this one a lot and i would like to see if it maybe could lead to something serious. We share a lot of common interests, i just think we would be good together, but if nothing happens then i know it was for a reason most likely. Thanks for the advice it helped.
