Guys treat you sooo differently when you are taken

Maybe i'm a wierdo i'm diffrent i treat girl diffrent when they arn't taken, you kinda got to walk on egg shells for a couple reasons A) if you like them I am kinda shy so i come across aloof, B) if you don't like them you don't want to give the wrong impression and ruin a friendship.

 

there is no one rule or way for picking up/talking to women that will always work. i think that is something that men don't seem to understand.

every woman is different, so if one thing works on one person it doesn't mean it will work for everyone. it is good advice to be yourself, at least then if you get her interested it wasn't because you were pretending to be someone you're not. but honestly, if you approach a complete stranger then you are only guessing what the right way to talk to them is, you can't know until you actually know the person. so i'd say focus on getting to know someone before trying to date them.

 

I think my main problem with women is that i'm far too analytical...i completely agree that there should be different variables when approaching different women. the problem is that, in order to find out who someone truly is, you must first put yourself out there and gather as much information as possible and then work directly off that. each one of us is different and you should learn off past experiences but rarely ever apply them to each new attempt. each person is a breathing individual science...not a cookiecut application

 

Jesus, you ARE analytical.

Gathering information on women makes me feel like a stalker. I don't do prep work. Boom boom boom, and I grab 'em.

 

I would not enjoy being analyzed like a science experiment. "Boom Boom Boom" is deff preferable.

 

There ya go, sweetie.

 

I'm analytical with some girls. Girls who I don't like that much but see something in. Penetrating their core with my questions which probably sound pretty obscure to a third observer. Sometimes their answers are so ridiculously shallow, I walk away. But there are some pearls in a kingdom of rocks..

 

Little divas. You gotta follow a certain sequence of interaction with them OR knock them off their little pedestal with unapologetic male aggression. I favor the latter, and that's not the same as violating people's boundaries.

I'm thinking more of the realm of "masculine crass."

 

I know what you mean. I'm not really a 'hunk' type though so the masculine crass thing would make me look weird. I'm the stylish supporting actor, you know. The observer.

 

Oh. That's even better.

I'm actually the same way and I learned how to use it. I'm refined and blase/aloof, and all of sudden I'll say "nice bod" to a chick thinks her shit don't stink.

Or I might inject fuckin' and motherfucker into my sentences. SUDDENLY. When they thought they had me pegged.

VERY effective.

 

We park our cars in the same garage.

 

Spit from the same dragon, my man.

 

not information like facts(in a creepy way lol) its more a sense of feeling out the situation. but more trying to pick up subtle hints of chemistry before making any visible attempts.

 

Whatever happened to just sweeping a girl off of her feet, kissing her passionately, and then leaving her to deal with what just happened? Or walking up and sticking a flower behind her ear and just smiling and walking away.I'd kill for that, most days. Over-thinking things just ruins everything. Try being more spontanious. That's what I go for, anyway.

 

Do people actually do that ? :huh:

Honestly, if a guy walked up to me and stick a flower behind my ear, I'd be all like : WTF...What a weirdo.

 

It happened to me in highschool. I thought it was cute. :/

 

Hahaha

 

Of course, I was in the artsy crowd, so maybe we just have different standards of weird...

 

that's why we dont do that.

 

Oh. Well, not ALL girls would think its weird. So if you ever feel like doing it, do it !