I want to my doctor for a physic. I was told I was ok and I how a little high blood pressure. Which losing some weight would take care of. I have been think about getting a vasectomy for some time. I don't want kid. I could care less if I ever do. So I out right said to him I would a vasectomy. To which she said,"No, I won't do it." And she kept insisting I would find the right woman and that person would change my mind. I keep insisting that was bull. And would told you make it 5 more year and are still saying that I will. So that was how the appointment ended.
You very well many never change your mind, and that's cool. BUt leaving yourself the option is not a bad thing, trust me. Plus, there are risks to getting the cut, even if their rare. I wouldn't rush into that just yet. She may have said this to you in a way that pissed you off, but I agree with her in general.
I think you should keep the inner workings of your genitals intact just in case you find that one special lady. I know you said you will never want kids but you simply can't tell what changes the future may bring. So don't do anything irreversible when there are plenty of other ways to prevent pregnancy, like sticking it in the pooper.
Well, I have make 33 year with little sex. I can put it off for thirty years or so. By then I'll be to old to care. I don't understand why everyone thinks you need to have little brats to be happy.
It's fine to not want kids, but I think you should keep the option open. It doesn't hurt to wait, does it?
I guess it does not matter. I just wanted to insure I sponed no bastard. But seeing I also refuse love,I guess there is no change of that.
dude!!! my Dr did the same thing to me! I asked about a vasectomy and got the line about meeting the right person some day I sad great I hope so but I don't want children then he started telling me all these myths about it being bad for you and dangerous! 3 friends of mine have gotten their girlfriends pregnant and in my group of friends our reactions have been 'oh fuck he's gonna run' or 'oh fuck he'll forget to feed it foe days on end'. And the faces of these guys are chilling they're totally in shock. But people will keep insist that we'll change and want a little shit factory of our own or that we'll have sad painful lives if we don't have children.
The thing that PO me more is, Oh you'll meet the meet right person and what kids. The doctor acts like you will or even you have to. Would you belive I have four adults at Chirstmas forcing me to hold a 4 month old so they could get a picture. The older of my two sisters got married two year age and had a kid. So we got together for the last Christmas. I got hounded for over 2 hours how it how be so cute to have a picture of the baby with his uncle. My mom, my dad an both of my sisters went on. Whaa Whaa Whaa. I was sitting on the sofa watching TV and the next thing I know there is a baby in my lap and flashes are going off, and I was be told she won't hurt you she just a little baby. I get sick of the whole thought that there is something wrong with you.
I agree. You shouldn't have kids. You'd be one hell of a scary Dad. Seriously, having kids changes your whole life. Forever. I have 2 beautiful babies that I adore, but it is not for everyone. I respect that. There are millions of starving children in the world, why feel the need to bring more children into the world if you don't want to?
Guy's who get a vasectomy aren't men anymore. That's why I didn't have my dogs fixed, their good guys and I didn't want to take their balls. Like Cleveland Brown says " Sex is meaningless without potency ", damn straight.
I got cut almost 10 years ago. I was on my 3rd kid and I had enough. I knew there was no way I would ever want kids into my late 30's. Babies that is. It was the best thing for me. There are 3 different proceedures for vasectomy's. I had all 3 done, so mine cannot be reversed. Talk to your Urologist about having one with the possibility of having it reversed. The idea that you have to have sperm to be potent is rediculous. I have had more sexual experiences since my vasectomy and had so much more fun without having to worry.
vasectomy sound spooky, i mean it does change the hormons and stuff which affects your behaviour so its spooky
The big truth is I have avoided relationship because I DO NOT WANT KIDS. I can not understand why it is wrong not to want them. The doc had even wanted to send me to a psychologist for say that. I have spend quite a few years avoiding women. Even though I have been told it is imposable to avoid love. You would say why not us a protection. Because woman nature urge to create, not necessarily life, and children with come up. I have seen it, with a once friend. And I don't want it.
I've encountered the same thing - wanting to be sterilized and always getting told I'd change my mind, and I'd get broody when I see my friends with babies. If I see anyone with babies or toddlers, it just puts me off kids even more!! And, even if I did want children, some nasty genetic illnesses run in my family and my fiancé's, and both of us suffer from these illnesses. It's enough for us to take care of each other, and neither of us is selfish enough to bring a child into the world when there are these enormous risks for the child. I feel that if you want a vasectomy, you should be able to get it. I hate this stereotypical mindset that as people get older they'll get broody. Some people don't want kids. Some people realize they shouldn't have them. Let us make our own decisions.
