Really don’t know where to start? I will start off by saying my husband and I have been married for 10 year and have 3 kids. I have a gut feeling that he is bi or gay and just keeping it in. He has been brought up with a very religious upbringing so I think that plays a big part in keeping this a secret. My husband and I have a very sexual love life. We like to try new things to keep it spicy! With that being said my husband has admitted in having a teenager experience with another man when he was a teen. He said he didn’t like and always puts down gay people. Lately we have been talking about trying new things again and I said it would be a turn on to see some guy suck my husband off. I asked him if he would be into that, he replied yes! I asked him if he would suck a guy off in return while I watched. He replied ok. Lately, we have been watching gay porn and I noticed that he got hard instantly! Even when we talk about him getting sucked or him sucking someone off he gets hard. While watching the gay porn I started to stroke him off and he came with in a minute, the quickest I have ever seen. Also at times we do roll play and I will use a strap on and do him and he loves it. A couple of times he has done it to him self with out me around. I have found him looking at porn (always ass fucking) but woman. Never have I caught him looking at guys. He has also said he might be willing to bottom for the right guy while I watch. He has never had a problem getting it or keeping it up for me. He always wants to have sex with me (mostly doggie style) so it leaves me really confused??? Is he gay and just doesn’t want to admit it or is he bi or just a sexual person like myself that likes to try new things? We have not tried being with another man yet. I guess I will know by his reaction to the other person? Any help would be great. I love my husband and our sex life; really just want him to be happy and not to be ashamed or scared.
