Anal sex has been beaten to death on these boards

So let's keep at it. Guys, I have a question for you: Supposedly you were fucking a girl and you had tried anal a few times. You did all the necessary steps to ease into it as easily as possible, ie lube, one finger first, two fingers next, etc. Even then, it never really panned out after multiple good tries because of pain on her part. Would you, if she asked, fuck her and disregard her wishes for you to stop during actual penetration, if all was agreed to before hand? I mean, sometimes you just have to dive in, right?

 

I might accept anal sex as a gift, paid for with her pain. ("It hurts me, but it's his birthday and I want to give it to him.")

I would not accept if I felt that she was motivated by guilt. ("He wants it so much and I'm a whoosie about pain. He deserves it.")

 

While I would never engage in anal sex, If she told me to stop I’d stop immediately even if I was near climax




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well, it took YEARS AND YEARS. and the only reason i'd try again was because he understood that no meant "get the fuck out of there NOW, or i cram a cucumber up your ass while you're sleeping, you won't walk right for a month." understanding and patience is key. you gotta understand, us women have a serious stigma attached to that, as well as a great deal of pain to get through. don't screw up your ENTIRE sex life, which requires a great deal of trust, for one aspect.

 

are you saying if you shpould disrespect her feelings to what you do with her body?? are you crazy?

 

If she doesn't want to do it then don't do it. You've gotta make her willing to do so, if you force it on her then that'll just mess up your whole situation. Honestly, I never tried anal sex until my ex asked me to fuck her there. It's ok but it's really not that serious. I'd much prefer oral and vaginal over anal.

 

if she says no, and it hurts.. you gotta stop.
you can't just keep doing it, that's kinda like.... rape, isn't it?

 

ummmm I am the SHE, people. That's why I put this in the men's forums, to get an idea of what some of the dudes think. Thanks for the "insight" of the female perspective, but ummm welll nevermind. Anywho, I was just curious...

 

No it is the girls ass and I would do as she says without hesitation. If she liked anal stimulation and could not handle the size of my cock up her ass I would use my finger instead, its all about her ass not a guys dick.

 

if it's something you personally are willing to do, practice makes perfect. if gay guys can get through it, i'm pretty sure you can.
The sphincter muscles at the entrance of the hole need to be relaxed, which means u need to be relaxed. Sexual arousal also numbs pain, but using lube and your or preferably his fingers, the hole should be massaged and played w/ for 10 minutes before going to the cock.
and have him go very slow.
Again, only if you want to do it for him. Gays don't have a choice.

 

I don't see what's so special about anal sex

 

Your signature says it all...


Now to address the OP...no, I would not just continue fucking her if she was in any way uncomfortable.

Anal is just like anything else in life. Some like it...some don't.