thats right i said it im sorry maybe its just cus i am single but i see through all this fake love.theres a huge difference between real love and fake love real love never ends and fake love that most teenagers claim is real love only tends to last maybe at the most 5 years yet people feel they should be rewarded fo being together for that long when really thats nothing compared to the couples that have been together for 50 years and doesnt expect a reward.i think people analyze love way to much love is a feeling you get for someone not a title which kids use it as theese days they feel like they have to be in a relationship and they have to find love ,when they have their whole lives who knows who your going to end up with.things will happen on their own STOP TRYING SO HARD
I could have not said it better myself. I know what you are saying. I kills me to hear these teenagers saying there having there 7 month anniversary or year and he or she is the one. I just what to tell them. Go Live. Life is short.
Must People put to much in importants on it. My youngest sister have talked about get married with the last three boyfriend and it has not happened yet. I think in general society is put to much important on finding the "one" and having kid and so on. I personally have never and do not belive in the so call word love. I have had friend try to set me you with one of there girl friend but I have do go at avoided it.
ummm yea only true love is under 20.... thats why you hear about all those sucessfull under 20 relationships...oh wait you dont hear about those nearly at all.... I wonder why...
That's one of the stupidest things you have said. My grandparents were still in love after nearly 60 years of marriage when my granddad died last year. Don't be so ignorant.
fake love.... many true love could change into fake love when one of the couple change the feeling. today you exist true love,tomorrow you may exist fake love so ,true love is not a big deal... true equal fake
you all can say what you want, I understand you have your passions and whatnot, but I've seen way to many people under 20 post about "oh its so wonderfull Im in love", "oh I have surely found true love" only two or three weeks later to come back saying how terrible so and so ended up being and how silly they were to think they had achieved "true love" at such a young age, in such a short amount of time. Intense passion does not equal true love...it equals just that...intense passion.. I was just recently a teenager, and I can easily easily say, there is no way in hell I was ready, in those years, for a relationship to the extent that it be true love. Any teenager who thinks they are is badly mistaken I firmly believe. The mind is still changing alot in those years, your not even fully done maturing yet, especially when it comes to decision making and clear thinking. If I was an emperor, I would instantly ban all teenage marriages, punishable by death. They cause so much trouble, and end in utmost misery for those invloved, scarring the individuals with bad life perceptions for the rest of their lives, when the real problem was that they were much to young, and had not fully developed into an adult, yet went ahead and made such a life altering decision as to declare to have found "true love" when in reality they had only found the first feelings of passion and sex, which im sorry to say, do by no means constitute true love or anything remotley close to it.
That may be true by todays standards of teenage maturity, but in my grandparents day when they were in their late teens and married they were already more mature than many 30 year olds I know today.
Well duh, people back then had to be more mature, the times called for it, whereas now you can sit on your ass till your near 25 without ever having a real job by just going to college, my grandparents were the same way, both sets of em, but those times are gone, the days where getting married at 16-19 was the norm are over, unless your un-educated, which lets be honest here, most people who get married under 20 these days are un-educated people who are to ignorant to see the folly in marrying that young.
oh please.... your calling me immature because I said "well duh" on chat forum... sounds like your the immature one... Thats just weak man, I mean if ur gona insult me, atleast make it worthy, not some meager attack on my lazy forum grammar...thats just outright lame. Its a forum, with un-educated thirty year olds like yourself, theres no need for imaculate grammar here. Now THATS a worthy insult my unworthy elder! EDIT: oh and btw I was talking about teenagers, not 20 somethings, so your insult is inaccurate to begin with considering that I was not talking about my age group, but you're vast level of maturity (pfft) must have blinded you from seeing that...
I think the problem is just that the 'L word' is thrown around too much. Teenagers develop feelings that they arent used to - in a situation where they have a lot of affection for someone or a strong bond with someone they think they are in love. In my opinion, there is a huge difference between loving someone and being IN love with someone. To love someone just means you have a lot of affection for someone. You can love someone and then hate them and you could love 1000 people in your life... But being IN love is so much more than that. Im 21 and ive had a few semi-long relationships and i can safely say that i have never been IN love. Sure, ive loved people ive been with, but it wasnt lasting. Just because someone young says they love someone and then 3 weeks later they hate them doesnt mean that that love wasnt real. Its puppy love - it happens to everyone and its been around forever. Its just immature minds now knowing what to call or how to handle what they are feeling. And nobody really does. I dont think there has beena single person alive who has known the first time they have fallen in love and has been with that person for the rest of their lives. Each individual's own comprehension of love comes from past experiences. If you have stronger feelings for someone than you ever have before - how do you know you're not in love until you either lose the feeling or find someone else you develop stronger feelings for? This has been a massive rant, i guess my point has just been to let young people have their fun and their experiences, and not telling them what they are feeling is fake. Because most certainly, it isnt fake - just not as 'developed' as someone who is more mature.
I am extremely guilty of being one of those passionate teenagers. I am in love very much so with my boyfriend, not that I feel like our relationship can be adequately described by such a common and overused word. But he is my best friend, has been for 6 years, we have been together for 4, but didn't even begin to think about a "real relationship" until about a year ago. Anyways, I believe that we will be able to stay together, for a couple more years at least, because we are happy and in love and work hard to maintain the happiness and stability in our relationship. The both of us just want to be happy, so to all of you who think that because we are under 20 we can't be and stay happily in love, just watch us, happiness is our specialty. Hopefully you all can find "love" or at least experience intimate happiness and passion with a great person.
