Long story, but we are looking for a surrogate to carry our fertilized eggs or have her eggs fertilized by us/me. My wife's might not be suitable. Like I said it is a long story starting many years ago...Is this the right forum [?], and PLEASE lets stick to the topic. Painful to say the least.........................................................................
One is, she is a wonderful person, she has two healthy little kids, and she is sexy and very intelligent, but her husband is a DICK.... plain and simple. We are not willing [yet] to put up with him on that close of a basis for a year. I would love to use her and I think my wife would have no problems either, she just cannot get past him and his attitude on women, children, and why he isn't a millionaire.
I'm not sure, thats hard. I dont know many women who would be up for the idea of using their own eggs for this, that would make it their child, and it could bring up some very tricky legal battles in the future. I know that in the states you can expect to pay between $20k - $40k for the service of the surrogate. You would also need to draw up a contract between you and the woman, about care and surrender of the child etc. However, if you wife's eggs aren't suitable then I don't know if you can use a surrogate...what about adoption?
we had a talk with our friend last night.....I am not sure this is what we are looking for.....it almost seems like we are looking for a threesome and that is how she feels. Yes I am attracked to her as is my wife, but............short, round Italina girl with small breasts and a big thick ass that has two perfect kids of her own? Sounds perfect, but why am I not sure?
i`m so sorry to hear about this i wish there was something i could do for you. not sure i fully understand the problem, is the issue only that your wifes eggs are not suitable, or is your lovely wife able to carry the fertilized egg ? problem with going down the 3some route is that you would be taking the legality out of the equation. i`m sure you thought of all these points before but, how does her husband actually feel about her carrying your child ? would he be happy about the threesome thing ? how would you actually know that the child was indeed yours and not her hubby`s? how would you as a couple handle it if she changed her mind in the final trimester and decided to keep the child for herself ? i wish you all the best in finding a solution that fits, please keep us informed as things develop. best wishes, dave
Aw the lawyers. There are legal ways. Her husband suggested it. My wife's eggs are not the best and she rejects them from her womb........
