advice on how to meet new women after long relationship

Ok well ill start with a bit of history, I just got out of a serious relationship of almost 3 years that took me from high school and through college. So it had been completely fine up till now I had made up my mind I was done school and moved back home an hour away from her and she stayed since she had a year more of school, I was going to ask her to marry me on our 3 year she had no idea about this. I had just got back from a grad trip to Cuba which she didn’t want to come with for some reason? And when I got back I turned my phone on, to give her a call since I hadn’t talked to her in a week and got a text message saying it was over. We talked because I wanted to see why but never got a real answer out of her. But I did find out she’s interested in a new guy so I don’t know what went down when I was gone.



So in the 3 years I had lost most of my high school friends and made new ones in college but I’m not there anymore so can’t see them to easily, to go out with them where I can kind of met new people . So it’s pretty much me starting fresh not knowing anyone in the town anymore and I would just like some advice on how you have met new people (women) when you don’t really know anyone? Or how men have introduced themselves to you? Because all the relationships I have had have been from friends introducing me to people.



Sorry if this isn’t in the right place but I am looking for starting a relationship advice

 

internet dating sites thats how ive met most my bfs (including teh one i wanna marry now)

 

just do what you enjoy doing you'll meet gorls wjho enjoy doing what you do..say hi to one

not too hard to do

girls are everywhere

but to connect to one that ya are compatable with just takes doing what u do..ya like music play or go see some music ya like helping ppl volunteer to do something to help ppl you'll meet girls wherever u go but to meet the ones who you'll get along with best just do what ya naturaly enjoy doin..

onternet dating sites are good if ya just wanna meet any random whoever and arent too picky about them being compatible (u might get lucky though)

here tyhough you can post in the personals here and u may meet some like minded folks

also oftemnn meeting women is easiest when your not just out to meet women

 

being a very buzy person and wanting to meet someone outside of the bar scene. I use phone dating service. And I dont care who knocks it. Dozens of chick are meeting people right now..
If you got a car and live local date line you can get sex for free or have a new freind in minutes.. NO SHIT!

 

I know how you feel. I am 28 years old. After 11 year togather, high school, college and some of our life. He cheated and lied to me about a women at work. So I know. We had our friends. So I had to start over too. I started meeting new people too. I went to a comedy club near by and night clubs. You can go on single things. I know people who have found there true love, But me know luck, just alot older men (36 and above). I met alot of people mostly guys but some girls. Now I have a few and they are growing. Hang in there. They will find you or you them. I hope it all works out for you.

 

I have found that you find the best relationships when you aren't looking for one, they just kind of happen. I know when I met my husband I wasn't looking for long term and neither was he, and nine years later we still laugh about the start of our relationship.

I would suggest the single life for a while. Go out with people, have fun, and when the "one" shows up take it from there. Sorry about your break up, but better now, then after you got married and had a child. It sucks, but you have plenty of time to find someone that makes you happy.....and you will.

Good luck!