ell basically the problem is that there's a GSA at my school and I wanna join it. The problem is i'm not sure whether i'm gay or bi.Prolly gay since i only like girls for their personality, rarely looks. ANyway, I don't wanna join because it'd show up on my records.I'm still in the closet with all of my friends who are straight. But as much as i like hanging out with them, I wanna meet gay or bi people too. My parents don't know im gay/bi either.I'd rather not have them discover me if i have to goto GSA meetings and such and they'd have to give me a ride, wondering what club I'm in.Basically i need advice, is it too early for me to join automatically "locking down" my identity? what should i do?
Join the club and talk to people about the subject - I was the same until i talked to my ex boyfriend (now my m8) and i then deiced to come out of the closet. - Honsitly if you are confident with you sexuality then you should.
it's the gay-straight association right? so it doesn't matter what you're into i say go and figure it out. can't hurt eh?
GSA is one of those new things in school that woulda been nice a generation ago. You don't have to tell your folks or friends that you are gay. It is the Gay-Straight Alliance. Straight ppl who believe in equality join in solidarity with the gay ppl. Also, keeps the place from being unilaterally targeted by the homophobe bigots (tho I'm sure it is still targeted). So, join. It doesn't matter if you are gay or straight. That is the beauty of the alliance.
i have GSA at my school to and i kinda wanna join but im not sure who to ask (teacher wise) who to talk to to join but i don't want the teacher to know and im to scared to ask my friends about who to ask. what if there are straights that just join so they can find out who is gay/bi?
Well I joined a group like GSA only it's not strictly for LGBT it's for anyone. We call it P.R.I.D.E. anyway no one has to find out you're in it. Besides if it is a Gay Straight Alliance group then you sexual identity does't matter. I joined when I was "straight" but accepted I was bi. It sometimes takes a while to figure out who you are.
i just joined the gsa at my school. out of the 10 people there, 1 person is gay, and 2 people are bi (not including myself) and the rest are all straight. I think its pretty chill there... and i can feel comfortable with my sexuality. I thought it was gonna suck but its really not that bad. In fact i find it kinda helpful. Try it out. maybe you might like it.
