I want a realtionship with a beautiful woman

^^^ Aww ain't that precious, lol.


Be careful there bud, the word love has become overused to hell, but good for you on catching a hottie.

 

im sorry if i caused a miss-understanding. Im not so sure i said what i ment. but doesnt everyone have a women or man that is there fantasy...well ive had my share of fair women some not so preety and some that were great looking...but hell im young i have enough time to chase my dreams..and i know hollywood is what it is but the attitudes the love movies show are perfect and the girls just happen to be extremly attractive maybe im dreaming to be attarcted to that...but i have high hopes! why not ive been fucked over enough by both hot and ugly women so ima get fucked over it mise as well be by something worth my while...but this post wasnt suppost to make me look like im an asshole to good for average looking women im just saying thats what i wanna chase...just turns out most women arent as nice as hollywood and are to good for me..

 

Yeah, um, that post definitely didn't help.

You are 100% out of reality. Jesus. Life ain't the movies, kid.

 

I would like a guy. Who don't LIE or CHEAT. Who is honest and faithful. Thought I found someone but No after 11 yrs. He LIED and CHEATED. So what do you do, When you love someone so much?

 

When I was not much older than you, I dated a young woman who was so beautiful that when I took her to a party, all eyes would be on her when she entered the room. I would spend the whole evening fighting guys off her. I've dated other women who were average looking, but at a party, with their wit and style, they accomplished the same thing -"taking over a room". I married one of the latter, and we had a great marriage.

At your age, don't expect any true relationships - you are all trying out the opposite sex, learning about different types of men and women. It is all practice at your age - practice in becoming an adult. Unfortunately, some never learn.

I live in La-la-land, and have met many "beautiful" men and women here, and many "famous" people. With rare exceptions, they are just ordinary people with "recognizable" faces. They want exactly what you want in life, except that in their chosen profession they exist in a world where people idolize them for what they think they are, not for what they really are. The same is true for beautiful women - people judge them based on their superficial exterior looks and never get past that to see what they are like on the inside.

 

Your problem is probably judging women (whether intentionally or not). I know so many beautiful girls with awesome personalities... I am one of them, and I treat my boyfriend awesomely! Just stop looking and you'll find it... if you're just looking for a gorgeous girl you will probably miss out on something good. So just go with the flowww.

 

this thread brings up a question of my own, i agree with everything that has been said here but its all that initial approach thats the toughest, since attractive girls get hit on so often how do you get best being just another pussy-hungry guy thats trying to get her in bed? I feel like these gorgeous women have just been hit on so much around here that its hard to get past that and not be labeled that way on the initial meeting, this is more true in a social, party/club setting. Its a bit easier when you meet them in real life like at work or school or somthing

 

The best way to get a beautiful woman is to not kiss her ass like 99.9% of the rest of the guys out there do, don't act like a douchebag. If she is only looking for someone to buy her stuff and do nice things for her all the time you will find out.

And the movies, are just movies, not reality. I know how it is, you have some girls running around here acting like they think they deserve to be dating brad pitt. Its kind of sad really how out of touch some people are.

There are beautiful women out there that are actually nice and down to earth too, and none of that ass-kissing stuff that the other guys try to do will get you anywhere near dating one of them. Just keep it real, be yourself, be confident and a bit cocky, as if you could easily get another girl just like her. Good thing is once you get closer to college aged, beautiful women are everywhere and are pretty easy to pick up. High school sucks.

At 17, its hard to really understand how attraction works, because its not logical. Looks are not NEARLY as important to women as it is to men, confidence, status, charisma, and charm are much more important.

 

thats a hard one!! you see we all see people in different ways, what i call outright extremely attractive you may call dog ugly and visa versa. imho i have an extremely attractive partner and i am average, but you might see otherwise and think no she's just average and im good looking,

get my point?

 

All you need is to be confident in yourself. That attracts women. And well, you also need to be understanding with them, and nice, and spoil them

 

i tried it once, but didn't get anywhere, this girl happened to be a bitch. i hope your ways will lead you to a proper relationship. remember, their looks might make them look like they are worth it quite a lot, if they treath you like shit they just aren't, ok?

 

it's possible man, but you got to relize that if she is extremly gorgous most likely she's gonna be lookin for the next best thing.

 

First off you are an attractive guy. As you may have heard beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I have been told I'm beautiful, gorgeous, hot, etc. all my life (not to sound coincided) but I have never tried to find a gorgeous guy. What draws me to a man is their personality. I would be lying if I said looks have no part because that is what first draws us to a person. What I have found is that all though looks is what draws us to people it's their personality that decides if we will stay or go. Looks fade; it's what's inside that makes that person beautiful or ugly. I have known some GORGEOUS girls that had some of the WORST personalities. They would act like everyone was there to serve them, push a person down then laugh, insult others girls until the other girls were balling and that wasn't even the worst of it. You should have seen how they treated their boyfriends, who didn't stick around long. Also the really beautiful girls sometimes tend to be more careful about who they date since most of the guys who approach them are jerks. When people meet my boyfriend they tell me they are surprised that I am with him, that " he doesn't look like my type". The reason I am with him is because he is intelligent, sweet, caring, giving, and just amazing to me. In my eyes he is the most handsome man I know. I realize this is long but to answer your question yes it is possible Just have faith and when you find that beautiful girl get to really know her. Remember that looks fade but that personality is what you will have for the rest of your life (if you get married). Good luck!

 

So uh, women you deem not beautiful arent worth your time?
well thats rude.

 

yup, some women get away with that kind of behavior because everyone kisses their asses just because they are physically attractive.

I like a beautiful woman just as much as the next guy does, but if they can't keep it real and are your average shallow superficial the world revolves around me pretty girl then they may as well be hideous in my opinion.

I went on a date with a girl that was pretty decent looking, but not anything to die for, but she sure thought she was the hottest thing on the planet, I thought it was just a game she was trying to play but she seriously wanted people to kiss her ass!! Then she started going on about how I had never dated anyone as hot as her, lol, at that point I proceeded to educate her how that 90% of everyone I had dated was more physically attractive as well as had better personalites(this was not unprovoked, she had just treated one of my friends like crap and she was gonna get put in her place) Bottom line she was insecure and needed re-assurance from everyone that she was hot, which is ok but she didn't need to come off like such a bitch about it.

So looks really in the grand scheme of things don't get you very far.

 

There were some people to many to quote talking about that im young and dont need relationship. I wasnt actually talking about being in one now. Im in to much older women ( I actually have this thing for the woman that works at the corner store closest to me who is 36, she know im attracted to her.) I actually dont feel like wasting time in bothering with the opposite sex right now because i dont have anything to offer. + I am about to join the army and plan to make career out it.(leaving sometime this summer for basic,asvab allready passed) But one day I'll be around more so and wont a family And i wont a relationship with this gorgeous woman that sorta looks like the one at the corner store. Which is why since this post ive actually started trying to get to know her even though its extremly hard to break any ice being my age i know it probley scares her. But she says she enjoys my company. I also am not just trying to fuck her but id rather actually get to know her and understand my attraction to her and keep an acquaintance.

I think my thing is why im after beauty is because i was once overwheight (i kept a picture of me from awhile ago in my photos) i since then started to eat healthy and exercise its not hard. Since then i feel for heavy people but escuse me if im not attracted to it. Usually being in shape gives you the best body you could ever ask for..i know people seem to think my stomach looks hell of alot better being able to see my abs then rolls of mcdonalds double cheese burgers.

 

I'm not writing this to toot my own horn, or to be conceited. I am a beautiful woman. (Well, more cute..but guys of all ages stop in their tracks when I walk into a place, grocery store, anywhere) I am 43, but I have honestly been mistaken for a 20 year old. This is not my point though.

I thought you might like to hear how it feels to BE one...And one that is older and had more experience having to live with this. Sometimes it is great, but other times it sucks because people just don't take me seriously UNTIL I prove myself. And I just don't have the time or the desire to spend all my time proving that I have a brain in my head. I'm really not complaining that I'm pretty. I'm complaining that I get judged because of it, and guys think that they can give me their stupid lines, and they really expect me to fall for it. I can't even go to CHURCH without some guy trying to hit on me.

I guess my point would be that maybe these beautiful girls that you pursue might just feel the same way. They might sense that you are AFTER a beautiful girl/woman or whatever you want to call them. The ones of us who are brainy sort of like a challenge. Someone that requires a little getting to know first. And we/I like guys that are softspoken but witty, handsome but not stuck on themselves, etc. I was married to a man for 24 years that STILL thinks that he was the best thing that ever happened to me...And he treated me like a piece of crap. Just because I had some depression issues, and he had to provide for me for a long time, he thought he owned me. And he wanted to show me off. PERIOD. I have lived with my current boyfriend for a year now almost, and YES he liked to show me off at first. But I think he is tired of me being hit on right in front of him...LOL! I can't speak for him..And I really don't know because of what I said..I like softspoken, sort of shy, and not really all that outspokent about their feelings kind of guys. The more the guy does this, the more I want him and the more I try to figure them out..AND the more I want to MAKE them/him love me the way that I love them/him. I hope this helps...Be a little bit of a challenge, but still let her know that you are interested. And don't ever try to show her off. And if you DO show her off...watch and see if she acts like a ho (sorry about that, I don't know any other way to put it LOL) If she does, she's not the one. I hope you find yourself the most beautiful woman on earth, inside and out.
Best wishes
L

 

Whoops, sorry! I didn't see your post regarding your older lady friend til after I posted my reply. BTW I'm not hitting on you. I have sons your age..LOL! Sorry. I thought you were talking about younger women. Be careful with the older ones though, ok? Try not to get too emotionally involved. They will age a lot faster than you do. That's why I don't date younger guys, even though I could. Good luck to you.

 

I'm looking for a guy who wants get to know me for me and not just to 'get some'. I guess that's why I don't trust guys too often anymore cuz that's all I've gotten from them....

 

Yeah my last ex was a slammin hottie, and VERY much out of my legue. She was like a friend of a friend, so even though we were in the same social groups quite a lot, and I fancied the crap out of her, i didnt do anything. In fact I though she was so out of reach for me that she didnt even really notice me....

One time our mutual friends were'nt up for hanging out, so I txt her sayin "seem as no-one wants to do sumthin tonight, do you fancy hanging out anyway, just us".

Im rambling...but the point is that night I figured 'hey shes here with me, in my house..I might as well try it on with her". Next thing I knew we had been going out for over three months.

The point is it can happen. Now I come-on to girls that I would never dream of hitting-on a few years back. I realized that although looks are in the beggining, you can get (almost) any girl intrested in you if you try hard enough.