Not many girls like to do it on an average basis. And I give oral almost every time I have sex, albeit I'm not going down on a dick. I've never been that big of a fan on blowjobs, but I do admit I enjoy it, just some of my principles where I wouldn't ask a girl to give me head for all that long whereas I could go on myself eating her for an hour or more, not that I have just saying I never get tired. I've had girls go deepthroat on me a few times, like just a one time deal for one session. I mean overall like maybe 40 seconds, she licks the top, goes down a few times and then deepthroats and is done. I ask for very little if I ask at all. But I have had girls who would refuse to even try. I like deepthroats because it gives me some good suction that just turns me rock hard and really gives me a boost to go non stop for 3-5 minutes without any regression, I mean just pounding. But seriously, this girl I'm dating right now, I had to literally beg her to try it once and she almost choked....and she went like not even half way, and now when I even just mention it I swear she gets ready to slap the shit out of me. What's the fear? It's not like I'm going to explode and off goes the head. The only pursuasive method I have is to give her a good long session myself. But she's not really giving anything back.
just be like, "i would really like to try this honey, your great already, but id like to have you try to go all the way down, it just really gets me off, just tell me what you like and i'll see what i can work on for you [wink]" so at first she'll be like "omg he thinks i should do it again, perv! doesnt he have any respect for me" then she will use sense and reason "well he does seem like he wants it, i would care to make him happy, and atleast he did offer to try new things for me too [suppressed squeal of joy]" and most likely she will be to scared, or apprehensive to let you know to tell u what she likes, so she'll maybe just do it anyway score
my reaction to being asked to deepthroat would be a clear statement that i cant becuase it makes me gag horribly, and unless he wants puke on his crotch it aint gonna happen but, thats me. im sometimes a bit more blunt than other women. but seroiusly, most humans have gag reflexes that make deepthroating difficult if not impossible. at the least, fo rmost people it require more trainign tahn someone shoving her head onto his cock until something happens, yknow?
Most girls I know can swallow a bannana whole, or at least get most of it. When I say she can't even get half way that means she can't even finish a bannana in two bites. It's not that hard I'm not asking her to drive her nose into my stomach kay? Just get a good chunk. I know what a gag reflex is, I have one too okay, and getting like 75% of my dick would not cause anyone to puke. She's just bitching.
I have always wanted my gf to deepthroat me, I never really pressured her. She has tried once or twice in the past, and couldn't put it get it past her throat with a gag. Anyway, being the fair person I am. I tried seeing if I could deep throat her dildo about the size of my dick, and I was unable to (gag reflex also). From that point on I have not said of word to her. Because, I put myself in her place. But, for all the girls that have mastered this technique, I am jealous of your bf.
i cant eat a banana in two bites. maybe youre blessed by having many women with little to no gag reflex, but most chicks have it. certainly not all, but enough. to be honest, it sounds like you havent much respect for her and its hard to wanna try new stuff with someone who doesnt love and respect you
I can almost swallow a bannana whole, parties I've gone too, dares, you know, lol, but I can't imagine it being so hard to get like, 5 inches, I'm sure bannanas are longer than 5 inches, like I said 75% of my dick I don't expect her to have her nose touching my stomach, which would be basically the whole thing. And I'm very respectful, I've never asked a girl to just suck me off until I cum, I've never asked a girl for anal more than once, I've never asked a girl if I could give her a facial or cum on her tits....well yes a few times, but i think you get my point. I mean sex for me is pretty standard, I mean most of the girls I've dated haven't had the flexibility to do all that many kamasutra positions, some but not many, or they try it for like a minute. I've basically got 5 positions I usually use, I give her oral almost every time for like 10 min+ as an intro, well I usually start off with a full body massage, then the oral, then sex. I get a blowjob like half the time, maybe less.
Get her a toungue scraper!!! worked wonders for me. it still takes me a minute to work my way down but I eventually get there. you just need to take it slow and get her REALLY turned on.. shell gobble that shit up.. oh, and not eating for like 4 hours before helps.
No one said she had bad breath, but with a toungue scraper you can work on making the gag reflex less prominent.
I know what you're saying. If I give it to her she's gonna think her breath is bad. If I explain it's for her to losen her gag reflex...she well slap me.
ah well, dude, youre out of options. I guess ur penis just isnt meant to go down her throat lol i guess nothing you say will make her change her mind, and you should just count your blessings.
yeah my current GF loves giving me Oral but Unfortunatly she has a mouth capacity of less then a golf ball and she rubs her teeth on my member as it is and gets only about 1/5th of it in her mouth befor gaging but shes so cute trying to stuff it as much as she can in her mouth. but some girls are different i had a prevous GF that could take it all the way to the base and not gag it was very very hot and felt so good but all girls are different its just luck of the draw lol (in a way) u could always try meeting girls in a bar and saying 'Hi how far can u stick this iceblock down ur throat" lol could work
I love giving head and I've been getting much better at deepthroating. I can get about 4-5 inches in now, but not the whole penis. When I started off, I couldn't put anything in my throat at all. I understand why a girl wouldn't want to do it, and you're not being considerate. If she's never done it before, you can't just expect her to shove your entire cock in her throat on the first try. Tell her to put in as much as she's comfortable with. Gradually she may be able to get it all in.
thats true. I started with 4. Now I can get 7.5 down. I'm having trouble with the new dick coz its much thicker, so i had to figure out a new angle and a little bit over 8 inches. I almost got it down though, and will work hard at getting it all. Its a challege I placed upon myself. The Dick is perfectly fine since apparently no one has gotten more than half of it down, but dammit.. I will do it. tears running down my face and all.
i have found some of the deep throat videos on youporn / redtube etc, eyewatering to watch! some times it looks unimaginable that a girl will get the whole thing in her mouth, and then, hey presto! he s disapeared up to the balls. amazing and astonishing. i take my hat off to the girls that can do this! My partner would never come near achieving that!
just let her suck on the head then!!!! if she cant take more then ok... you cant force her to do it... that would be a huge turn-off for her...