Cancers vs. Gemini's

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  1. hnugginbuggin

    hnugginbuggin Member

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    Cancer men and Gemini women. Do they mix?
     
  2. XBloodyNailPolishX

    XBloodyNailPolishX Forgetful Philosopher

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    Yes!!! Very well!! I am so an expert on this when it comes to personal experience!
    I'm a Gemini (sag rising, capricorn moon), and every guy I've ever seriously dated has been a beautiful, sensitive, emotional, very watery, blue eyed cancer!
    Let me tell you!
    They're little snugglers! Don't let their tough exterior scare you! Inside, they're all soft and squishy and they make great pillows.
    Just remember, they need lots of cuddlings, and are very sensitive. They're very loyal and loving too!
    Even a girlfriend of mine, a fellow Gemini (we even look like twins!) is a quilty as charged Cancer lover, though she doesn't like to admit it because they always charm her too!
    A cancer never fails to charm me and make me blush!
    Congrats, fellow Gemini! Give him lots of lovings!
     
  3. hnugginbuggin

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    i LOVE to snuggle and kiss, but he hates it. well, he likes to cuddle, but he doesn't like to get too intimate. he hates french kissing, which sucks. but man, he does have a very tough exterior being a boxer and all. but i can tell he's all sensitive on the inside. i love him so much. he's got killer intuition too.
     
  4. duckandmiss

    duckandmiss Pastafarian

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    Well my gemini left me after 2 years. I don't know if I ever would have gotten used to the two sides of her personality. She was very hot and cold. I def. am the sensitive, emotional, very watery, cancer and she was def. the Gemini that I knew two of. I think my constant need for affection and affirmation was a problem? Who the hell knows.
     
  5. hnugginbuggin

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    you know what's weird, every boyfriend that i've had, looking back, it seems our astrological roles were reversed. once a SAG told me i thought too much! then i dated an aries and i was the one that was very hot headed. now with my cancer, im the one that's emotional and cuddley, and he's the one hot and cold all the time, leaving me wondering where we stand. anyone else sense this??
     
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    Well, thinking too much would be characteristic for a Gemini, but perhaps the other instances are just indicative of your Geminian versatility. You adapt to accommodate the qualities of others and in the process you may temporarily embody those qualities.

    Alternatively, maybe being a mutable air sign makes it easy for others to project their own qualities onto you.

    Travis
     
  7. XBloodyNailPolishX

    XBloodyNailPolishX Forgetful Philosopher

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    My Cancer is the same way... likes to hide in his shell, hard to see what he's feeling. its natural... he just gets scared easily and scuttles back in his shell!
     
  8. XBloodyNailPolishX

    XBloodyNailPolishX Forgetful Philosopher

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    tell me about it.
     
  9. radareyes

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    Gemini is the sign of the dualistic, conceptual mind, one of the reasons that it's symbolized by the twins. Geminis like to take into account all possible perspectives, which is simultaneously their greatest strength and weakness. If they approach this tendency positively, then there is no sign more open-minded, versatile, and communicative. When it manifests negatively, however, Geminis require constant sensory stimulation and ideas and concepts are related to as an end unto themselves -- quantity takes precedence over quality. This can give rise to other notorious Geminian shortcomings, like superficial knowledge of many subjects but a focus too dispersed to reveal the underlying substance of those subjects (which can also translate to their relationships with people) duplicity (emphasis on communication that lacks emotional resonance allows them to create a facade that can be implemented at their convenience despite its disingenuous nature and the negative impact it may have on others), and an excess of mental energy (you have to think alot to simultaneously acknowledge all of those perspectives :)).

    Travis
     
  10. duckandmiss

    duckandmiss Pastafarian

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    When with my Gemini she was constantly over analyzing things that seemed simple to me. Some of our problems came from the frustration she felt when I did not analyze some of the things in my life and just let them play out. This was usually seen by her as being lazy (which may have been 10% of the time) but for the most part for me is how I deal with the happenings in my life.
     
  11. hnugginbuggin

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    so is all this why pot makes me crazy?
     
  12. radareyes

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    I don't know, what happens when you smoke pot?

    A few years back, I had a Gemini friend who would become extremely excited about esoteric concepts when he dropped acid, but I considered it more of a positive state than a negative one.

    Travis
     
  13. Alter-Reality

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    Cancer is shy and reserved, but very loving and protective.
    Gemini is very intelligent and playful, sometimes childish, but very quick minded.
    They can compliment each other well.
     
  14. hnugginbuggin

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    me and my man compliment each other very very well. i can be childish alot,fairylike, and he digs it and plays the loving fatherly role. when we met we even found out our children have the same birthday. fate.
     
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    I'm a Gemini (Sag rising), and every guy I've ever dated, including my current steady hubby, have been Cancers, and we've had the same kind of relationships! wierd, hmm?
     
  16. mamaKCita

    mamaKCita fucking stupid.

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    however, gemini men and cancer women really break each other's hearts frequently. just a difference in behavior, not heart.
     
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    I am a Gemini and my girl is a cancer. we have known each other for nineteen years and have been together for fifthteen years, we compliment each other. I think if she wasnt the way she is about being tolerant, any not very jealous. we would have broken up along time ago. she knows how i like to play in life, but i never stray from her. she is my constint, we are never a loss for words. she is a little needy, but i am a little flakey so we have our faults. but all in all i do not see myself with anyone else. She is my love.
    I have a lot of good friends who are cancers they are alot of fun if you can get them interested and out of the house.
     

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