i was with a girl for 6 months and about 2 months ago she broke up with me. The thing is that in those 2 months shes returned one of my fone calls and only stayed onthe line long enough to ask if i had called her and what i wanted, which was true and all i wanted to do was check up on her because itr had been so ling since i heard from her. Its not like i call all the time and its like we dont have a chance to see each other during the week, but i have gotten the distinct feeling that she wants nothing to do with me( including just staying friends). the thing that really bothers me is that we work at the same place. it hurts when she wont even talk to me when im right there. is it normal for people to do this? seems a little imature to me. any thoughts???
It's a bummer for sure, but alot of people act like that after a break up. Did she give you a reason why you broke up? Whatever that was could still be bothering her.
well acording to her she had tried to think of me as more than a friend for those six months and that she just couldnt... wait i just figured it out. after about 2 weeks of being broken up i went an slept with a girl after a party. she asked me the next day how my sex life was... and i told her about it because it was the right thing to do. or at least i thought it was. i think i told her that... i wanted to be honest.... wOw, i'm a duche bag arnt i?
okay heres my question. when you tell a guy that theres a chance to get back together if he doesnt sleep around anymore do you still treat him as if he's not even in your world let alone your life? Please someone throw me a fucking bone here...