I tense up but can't cum

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by cantsmokenomore, Jun 2, 2008.

  1. cantsmokenomore

    cantsmokenomore Member

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    When I masturbate I can get myself to the point where my clit gets sensitive and my vaginal muscles start to pulsate, but I can't physically cum liquid, it's just the muscles tensing up and relaxing, any ideas?
     
  2. criesenmy

    criesenmy Member

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    fuck me =]]lol
     
  3. Cutted

    Cutted Cutted

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    Not every female squirts or gets wet when they orgasm. Sounds like yours is the way it is for most women. Enjoy it.

     
  4. cantsmokenomore

    cantsmokenomore Member

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    So this is a normal thing Cutted? I've been kinda put off by the whole thing, but it still feels really f*ckin good. I guess I'll just go with it! Thanks.
     
  5. Cutted

    Cutted Cutted

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    This is normal, from my experience making love to over 20 women. Some get very wet every time, others are usually dry and need a lot of lubrication to have enjoyable sex. Others are sometimes wet, sometimes dry, depending on their level of arousal. A few get so intensely aroused they squirt the liquid (not urine) which makes them wet.

    What you have experienced is a clitoral orgasm. Now you have to work on a G Spot orgasm, or both at the same time.

    PM me if you need instruction on how to attain a G Spot orgasm.

     
  6. PLURx3

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    Hey!
    I've had the same problem for years. I never felt like this was worthy enough to be an orgasm. I wanted the whole sexplosion, fireworks, bells and whistles thing going on when I came so I denied myself of being able to have them.
    Instead of focusing on whats not happening to your bod, focus of the things that are happening. Suddenly, it feels much better and leaves you more satisfied.
    If it feels good, why fight it? :)
     

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