Hi There I was wondering if any girls might be able to help me. I was thinking about trying anal sex with my boyfriend but I am a bit unsure. My main concern is getting hurt in some way or being left with some discomfort. Does it take long to get used to? Is anal sex enjoyable for a woman??? I'd really appreciate some advice. Thanks
iv tried quite a few times with my bf and it can be really painfull,with or without lube it still killed!i didnt enjoy it atall,but we changed position and it feels completly different and very nice lol,i read on the internet it was less painfull if he puts it in while your kind of spooning,but that just hurt me,doggy style was great tho.use loads of lube and you should be fine.kinda feels like you need a poo at first which makes you wanna stop,but just stick with it and you might really enjoy it,if not least youv tried!!!!!!!!!!!!!! xXxSarahxXx
for me there was some discomfort (slight pain but not anything unbarable) at first the first few times i tried it. After mabee 5 min everything started to feel really good though. After some practice it has became almost more fun than regular sex. my advice is take it slow use lots of lube make him wear a condom (not only is it safe, it slides in smoother too) did i say go slow warm up with something small like a finger stick it out, even though it may be uncomfy at first, it gets better. The first mabee 20 times i tried it, it took 5 to 10 min so start feeling great. well, i hope i helped have fun in your bedroom adventures and let us know how it goes...
I started doing anal sex about 5 years ago because my hubby wanted to do it. At first there was some discomfort but over time it got to be enjoyable. Today anal sex is our foreplay, our sessions almost always start with anal sex. I usually start by rubbing my ass on his dick and it's not very long before he's in balls deep. When he fucks my pussy afterwards it is so much tighter, he feels like a horse. Sometime my pussy will push him out because my ass wants it more. My ass acutally hurts until he gets his dick in there because I want it so much. Favorite positions are spooning, my back to his, we do this the most and a modified missionary position, God he gets in deep this way. Also in the modified missionary he goes back and forth between my ass and pussy, this is an unbelievable feeling.
i know i'm a guy but i know what to do cause my girl loved it the first time cause i did it gently: first get your dude to lube a finger and have him insert it slowly and gently get him to work it in and out slowly and side to side... if you feel the need take a break, not every one likes anal. next after you try the finger do the same with a thumb, all the while geting him to slowly strech the anus by moving it in and out and side to side and massaging the anal muscle at the entrance (or exit if you want to get tecnical) As Britneyr said, slow and steady wins the race. work your way up to it. once you feel ready have him slowy, and i cant stress this enough SLOWLY insert the well lubed penis and then work slowly in and out. get him to slowly build a rhythm and as always gently increase speed. follow simple step and you'll have anal like a pro in no time.
