me? when my hubby and i got sex then before he get orgasm, i mastrbated first while rubbing his penis
i votes other as , of yet, we have to discover what the other might be as anything on that list doesnt do a damm thing for me.
all im saying is that whatever is on the list its not a case of likeing it or not, not a damm thing on there has ever worked to get me there to orgasm, not one thing!!! yeh when having sex we do all of that stuff or i lay there and let him do his thing, but ive never even got what others describe as any where near close, whatever that may be, its just a case of him going in and out in whatever pretzel position he chooses, they are all the same to me tho
Ever tried doing it yourself? that might help, maybe you need to work it out yourself so you can show/tell him how to?
Most girls I'm with cum fastest from oral, very few get off from just normal intercoarse. Probably why lesbians are just as effective if not better at making women cum. Combination of mouth and fingers is the key.
yes of course i have tried that but its totally ineffective even then for me, i just dont get anywhere even after a few hrs or with a vib nothing works at all, i just have to accept that i never will feel it
sorry if i sounded like i was stating the obvious, just had to check though. well you never know, dont give up hope yet!
damn. Im sorry. I wish I could help. I dont know how you could just lay there and let the guy do his thing. Sounds like youd feel like shit. You should get more into it when its going down, like ride the shit out of the guy, or something. I really wanna help you, sounds like hell. Make sure your in the mood, and be excited instead of "here we go again". I hope any of what I said helps you in the future
erm ok tel me this please, just what is there to be excited about>? i can do all the moving and stuff as fast or as hard as i choose but with out feeling anything other than completey knackered then there is no feeling at all, just him going in and out and a bit stretched thats it. just was is there to get into more when i have nothing to get in to?
It depends on the position, if I want to cum fast, I need to be on the man. He starts the preliminary by kissing my playing with my clit but as soon as I jump on him I'm sure to cum and it can be twice
Maybe if your husband is open to allowing you to play out your fantasies. Double penetration, super hung guy, black action, gang bang, public locations... whatever you've thought about over the years I guess. who knows.
your attitude to sex isnt helping. going into sex thinking its a chore and youre never gonna have one. try taking like herbal products like horny goat weed and stuff. taken about 10 a day. do everything and anything sexual you can, change your mind around, and hopfully you will explode. use it or loose i heard people say. how old were you before you tried to have your first orgasm.
ok guys sorry about the slight name change, but since the upgrade thing i cant get my password to work. right for a start i donthave any fantasies regarding sex at all, i never have done either. As for my age, i didnt know til 4 yrs back that i was meant to have orgasms, so obviously i never masterbated either, by that time i was 41 i have tried the pill route and even took viagra to hange things for me, none of it did anything at all and the best thing the viagra did was make my face hot!!!!