Hello people. This year I've known a boy who is one year older than me (I am 15 and he is 16). Sometimes it happend to me that I thought maybe I liked him, but I've never really thought of it. One of my best friends fell in love with him, but he doesn't like her. One day I was at his's home, and he told me he loves me as a friend and nothing more, and that he would like to have sex with me. I said no, because I was really tired that day and sex was the last thing on my mind. He asked me some other days but I never said yes. Then I remembered about my friend. Should I tell her what he asked me? Should I have sex with him if I want? Or not to have sex with him and not to tell her anything is the best thing to do? My best friend told me to make what I want with the boy and to be silent with my friend who is in love with him. I don't LOVE him or anything like that, it's just phisical attraction for me, which I think I can controll most of the time. Any suggestions?
that's a weird situation... be careful, because the risk is to lose him both as a friend and as a boyfriend... best friends don't have sex together (i suppose,'cos i've never had sex with my best friend, bleah!).... of course i think you should tell your friend what this guy proposed to you... these kinds of secrets are bad for friendship. it's not your fault, but that girl should know what is happening, or she'll be disappointed and feel betrayed... iknow this situation it has already happened to me... i hope i helped you in some ways.
Yea I agree. I think you should tell your best friend that the guy wanted to have sex with you but I wouldn't suggest having sex with him. Because you are attracted to him if you were to have sex it would be likely that your feelings would become more intense and that could end up an unrequited love!
if she is your best friend I wouldn't take the risk...many many guys are gonna come and go in your life, if this is a girl you consider a really good friend then I wouldn't do it, boys will come and go, a friend that you can truly count on to be there for you when you need it...let me tell you they are hard to come by.....
If I were you, I'd make him tell that second girl how he feels about her and then I'd do anything I wanted.. even sleep with him if I wanted, coz if you are sure it's just a physical attraction and he feels the same, why not. it may sound a bit selfish, but in these things, I've lost all my illusions...
if your friend didnt have a serious crush on him, you could do whatever you wanted (though im personally of hte opinion that the first time shoudl be with someone you have a deep emotional connection with, at least puppy love if not true love sort of a dealio) if you do decide to do somethign, youre going to have to come clean with the friend (better than her finding out a month or two later from someone else) and suffer through her anger as for the thread title, "what would you do"... i wouldnt touch him witha ten foot pole. ok, maybe thats a bit much, but your friend likes him a lot and ive only ever found sex to be amazing while in a deep, caring, committed relationship
