okay please some one read.....please

here is the thing. i think thta i might have done something very wrong. my boyfriend of one year sent a text message to a girl that said ihav efeelings for you. i went about it very calmly and asked what he owuld do if it was me and all that and i cried a little and just blah blah blah. well i told his parents about it and his dad said that he would call and cuss them out and say fguck them. so, instead i just put in a text message and sent it to like 7 girls in hi spohone and said i dobnt want to talk to yall bitches no more so peace the fuck out. i felt bad right after isent it. he kissed one of them, and like five more of them stalk him. should i feel bad? shoul di have even bothered. i told him next time, i would just leave and never come back. that hurt so bad just to see that. hes my pooh bear though, and ilove him. some advice please!!!!!!

 

Hey, I think you should really think about what is going on here. There is no doubt he is cheating on you. He is sending messages proclaiming his feelings to someone other than you and is kissing someone other than you. Unless you both have an open relationship or something along those lines that allows you both to go around doing certain acts with others, I would suggest you find someone who won't disrespect you and your relationship.

So, yes, I think you had every right to feel bothered (unless, like I said, there is the whole open relationship thing going on). I wouldn't take it out on the girls he is messing with, although they are no angels themselves for going after a taken guy (if they even know he is taken). He is a big boy and makes his own decisions, so if he makes the wrong ones, that is nothing other than his own fault. Good luck!

 

he has no respect for ya nevrer will unless u stand up for yourself ..and walk away

why would you love and sytay with some1 who only hurts ya?

 

Yeah. I'm sure that you can do better. Really, if he's your boyfriend, and he's gonna start saying that kind of stuff to other girls, then you really shouldn't stand for that kind of crap. Like I said, I'm quite sure that you're a really nice person, and I'm quite sure you can find someone that will love you and you only. Good luck. If you need to talk to one, just send me a message. I'll be glad to try and help

 

you don't deserve to be cheated and lied to. No one does.You deserve to be respected and care for like a lady should be. He has none of that. So If you want confront him about it and see what he says. i know how you feel. Trust me been there done that. They will tell lies to cover more lies. So you have to do what makes you HAPPY. So hope you do what is BEST FOR YOU. Life is to short. Live life to the fullest. Hope it works out for you.

 

Amen

 

i love hiim so much. he is a really great guy its just sometimes i will get in moods and i just dont know what i really want. i want to keep him, but it is so hard to understand what we have wwen tthroiugh i njust like one year. i do love him though. hes there when im crying, even though it is sometimes him that makes me cry, and he would hold my head up even if i wasnt the prettiest girl in the world. im very self concious, and he never make s me worry about what i look lie around him.

 

I understand you love him, but don't you feel you deserve someone who will love you back? There is no disrespect in love, therefore he does not truly love you. He can tell you that you mean the world to him, but this does not matter unless he shows it. You don't belong with someone like that, and trust me, you will find a man who will be there for you, make you feel like the prettiest girl in the world, appreciate you for who you are, and not disrespect you by going behind your back.

 

You cant make someone love you the way you want to be loved.

 

there was similar situation with my friend. she loved a guy but ha behaved like the ay yours behave. their relationships were very strange. she suffered from pain -she really loved hom. but in the end after 1.5 years of their relationships she left him. she realized that it would be better to feel bad for some weeks than to suffer from love the whole life

 

I think you're all jumping the gun just a bit telling her to leave him. Her original post is so incoherent that I can't even say with any certainty exactly what happened.

And posts like this... I see you saying things like this to people all the time. I don't think that a short (barely comprehensible) paragraph is enough to conclude that he has no respect for her. Frankly, I think that's a pretty fucking irresponsible thing to say to someone without knowing their situation. Do you ever give women any advice except "he's an asshole, you can do better"? For God's sake...