Playing hard to get or just not interested?

This was x-posted to the main Love & Sex Forum.

Bear with me on this, I want to get all the details in but I'll try to keep it as short as possible.

-The Background-

So for the last couple of weeks I've been reconnecting with people from high school that I never really hung out with outside of class. Usually anywhere from five to fifteen of us will meet up at a house and start playing music, drinking, smoking, etc. Well I was excited because one of the best looking girls in the class (we'll call her "Sam") was showing up more and more frequently. I'd had a crush on Sam during junior/senior year, and after hanging out with her a little more it was getting rekindled.
I got her cell phone number, and we hung out a couple of times in a more relaxed setting, cruising with another friend or two, and everything went great. I found out that she works at the new restaurant that opened like a block away from my restaurant, which happens to be like 5 minutes from my house. (And, by my estimates, 20 minutes from her house)

-The Story-

So work lets out last night and I text a few people to see if they want to smoke a blunt of some new weed I picked up. She's the only one who gives a positive response, saying "I just got out of work at [place], I'll see if I can take the car out when I get home" at 11:30ish. I text her again at 12:30 to see what's up, and she says "I'm leaving the house now, still want me to come?" Of course, I respond with "Yeah come on over", and that's where communication stops. I called her at like 1:30 to see if she was still coming over, and I left some dumb voicemail message or something asking her to call me back. I haven't heard from her since.

So... does it sound like someone's playing hard to get or just trying to shut me up?

 

theremay be 2 variants:she doesnt want to see you or she wants to see u alone without any uther people with you

 

She didn't feel like going out, probably tired from work. Meet up with her by chance some time with some friends