The dude went around school with fishmarket on his fingers? That's some funky shit! haha. Don't talk to him anymore, that's my advice. Grow up a tad and see how things work out for you.
When I was 14 I almost killed myself over a girl I dated for 4 months. Most 14 year olds are just very messed up and don't have much foresight or any real maturity. As you age you begin to realize that change is something to be embraced, and generally you become mature enough to realize when a relationship needs to be reevaluated and ended if it's failing on a massive level or if it simply never existed in the first place. Maybe at 14 you're more mature than I, and most the 14 year olds on the planet and you can already see this, and can know when something is simply a joke. Sometimes you believe something is and you come to realize that it never truely was. 14-15-16 year olds generally are too immature and too inexperienced to accept anything as simple as this. This is why you have the highest suicide rate of any age group. You don't see that there will be other people. I personally think that trying to maintain a long lasting relationship at such a young age can be mentally damaging and isn't really a great idea.
sweetheart... this guy is playing you and her.... you're just plain being used. If you really want a guy at this point, find one who will treasure you. It's worth it to wait instead of letting an asshole get what he wants from you. My advice is get some self respect.
1) learn the English language... 2) sterialize yourself... all your problems solved.. (taxpayers will thank you)
