okay so im bi, and i live in a small town with a whole bunch of conservatives/non bisexual/gay girls. thing is i know some people are still kind of in the closet, but how do you know if another girl is gay or bi and not saying anything, or find out if someone is gay or bi and out there?
You get in tune with your 'gaydar' so to speak. A great way to find out someones sexual orientation is simply to hang out with them long enough. If they don't tell you everything you can usually fill in the clues. Good luck!
This might add confusion but just because someone has had a quick one night drunk / need sex gay shag dosent necessary mean they are gay or bi. - I know a fue guys which have sex with anougher guy but are still straight i.e. go out with girls and don't find guys attractive.