so if you read the other thread SHOULD I KICK ASS

Sweetie, he's right, lend support.
Get her help, turn him in.
But revenge helps nothing.

 

fine.
like my hubby that is almost my ex
said
worry about YOU
dont sit around crying about her
but i cant help it
im so mad

 

Sorry if I missed this part of the story. But where are the cops in all this?

 

You can't fight this yourself.
If he's a bad person, turn him in.

 

That's actually her friend's responsibility, but it's tough to draw the line I know because she's psychologically dependent.

 

yeah basically
i dont trust cops


i would call them only if one was trying to kill me.
its up to her i know.
but this is the friend ive had the longest
so
her pain is my pain
ive been almost in tears all day

 

Is this about you or her?

When things keep going in circles, there is a chance it might be about you more than it is about her. Sorry if that sounds harsh.

P.S. It's not about trusting cops either.

 

But SOMEONE should turn him in. It doesn't really matter who.
Revenge won't change anything.

 

How about this......wait until after she moves into the apartment, if she does, then if Bill comes to the apartment and tries something, you'll have every right to fuck him up and the cops won't be able to do shit to you. haha

The best thing you can do now is to just try to convince Jess to get away from him.

 

lucky youre in pieces right now, at least, getting there, swiftly. Whaaaaaat happened man. Luckily enough, i think and hope youre nearly done with the falling, and will be closer to repairing yourself.

 

Tell your best friend that the only way she can protect him from getting his ass beat is to leave him... and if she stays with him and he lays a hand on her or otherwise abuses her he's as good as dead.

 

Listen to Cate and be good to yourself.

 

brian
i am SOOOOOOOOOOOO ready to go there n fuck his ass up with a bat. i saw the non physical abuse he was giving her and then this BRUISE. i never saw one that bad. jess CANNOT defend herself against him. im likely not gonna go today but if he does it again, i WILL take a bat to his head. i NEVER saw a bruise like that and she's my sister. not biologicallly but u know she is...do u thin id let her get hurt?????????????


praxis-i have my own probs and i was hit in the past and then i did strength training every two days and lost over 50 pounds and w/ the strength muscles my husband nowl....which i am leaving sooner or later..... he hasnt tried to hurt me in four years or three. why? cause im almost 6 foot and every day i work and i flat out told him one time "hit me and if i dont kill u, ill call the cops"- he hasnt since then. jess is SMALL.. jess is weak too with guys and i do consider her my sister. i really do. if i HAVE TO i will fuck hte guy up. but not tonight.
but what he is doing is making me so mad i try i wanna throw things. this is my SIS.
u gotta get it.

 

i agree with her and i agree with most of what praxis said

 

kick his fucking ass.

just do it man.

 

Kids, don't do drugs...

They may lead to stupidity, which often leads to violence.

 

No, I think praxis does get it.

You need to get that violence is not going to change what he has done. It may not prevent anything.
If you want to help stop this. Turn him in.

 

Most???

 

bitch, no you di-int.