so my girlfriend is catholic right. she has taken the pill before. and the morning after pill and shit. but i talked to her before and somhow i got the impression that if we were married shed want to use condoms all our lifes. fuck that. isnt it the norm for a couple for the woman to take the pill and fuck without condoms? yes. she has a baby as it is, and its not mine. i said i wouldnt want to be with somone which i had to use condoms all my life. religion is shit. she rekons shes not even religious. as it is we fuck without condoms tho pullout, so thats freakin no good at so basicaly she got really hurt i said i wouldnt want to be with somone like that, and i wouldnt. cause no normal married couple just uses condoms? right. they woman takes the pill? this is a big thing for me. am i wrong in being this way? now shes saying that cause shes had the morning after pill to many times this year, and shes taken the pill as a morning after pill by taking 7-10 at once she rekons her overies are fucked. and doesnt want to take anymore. but she hasnt done that much. i told her we should go get the rod in her arm. i think ill tell her that we should get a doctors opinion. her overies should be fine right, she doesnt hardly ever take the pill. shes just 18
Get a doctor's opinion, that's your best bet. But really, I don't blame you for not wanting to have sex with condoms all your life if you're married. That's bullshit.
I think it should be your girlfriends choice if she goes on the pill, there can be alot of side effects.
amen! thats what i wanted to hear. i was just talkin to her before and she rekons it was just cause she doesnt want to get fat. cause somtimes it can make you fat. cause you see this week she has just started taking it again, but the last 2 days she hasnt, and this is where this shit came up. but anyway she said she took it while on the phone, so i be watching her carefully. but shes taken it before for a little bit and she never got fat. and i showed her all this info about taking it long-term use and how it doesnt have any real bad effects. like you can take it long term.
like using condoms now and then maybe. but years with only condoms, wtf. its like youd be a kid again.
its a choice a couple has to make together. a baby is a fucking big thing. and she allready friken has one as it is. so her method isnt working is it. its fucking stupid thats what it is. i probably sound like an asshole but it pisses me off. i can get my head around the fact she has a baby, but this. fuck.
dude have her go to her gyno or dr...there is a birth control patch that she can get...its by script you wear it for 3 weeks and then off the week of her period ...my wife wears it ...how it works ...is she has to wear for the 1st month so it can adjust her cycle and the birth control to start working...then after a month you can have all the sex you want WITHOUT a condom...I def eff'n hate em......and I will tell ya my wife has been on every other birth control before getting on this and the side effects of the others were rediculous, she'd gain weight, PMS'n all the time, ect......so once her dr see's she is ok to use it she can get a script for it....because I have heard there are some pretty bad side effects for people that are not healthy enough to use it..but check it out...
some long term/married couples do rely on condoms. some dont. really depends on the couple in question she may have adverse reactions to the pill. some women do react badly to the hormones involved, some are totally fine.
